Ladies, are there any things that guys do to totally turn you off?
As a guy, I suspect my plain white briefs might be a turn off but I'm not worried about it because I would not want to make out with someone who would call it off because of my taste in undies.:eek:
BUT, is there anything that you gals think is a real turn-off, something to really complain about or get rid of your guy over?:confused:
if a guy has a nice body, even tighty whities can be hot. its the hairy, fat, greasy guys with stains in strategic places that make us gag.
for me, i will not even talk to a guy if i can't have an intelligent, stimulating conversation with him. excessive use of slang or any use of eubonics makes me cringe. chat speak is horrible.
Turn offs...Hmm thats a hard one. I can name you a few small common turn offs that most women have.
I dont care what underwear men wear, as they shouldnt care what undies females wear.
My boyfriend has a hairy buttox, I dont mind it :)
My biggest turnoff would probably be drugs. I could not date a man who was into drugs. But thats my own opinion, I know some people date males/females who do drugs and dont care. But my family history causes me to dislike it.
The biggest turnoff is hearing about exes. There is no way you want to hear about the other people they've dated. It doesn't matter what context it's in. Do not bring that up within 12 hours of wanting to be intimate.
Another turnoff is mid makeout flatulence because it's just awful if you hear and/or smell that.
There is a thin line between the sexiness of being scruffy and the turnoff that is having a lack of personal hygeine. (Stubble is hot, BO is not.)
Expressionless is right, drugs are a huge turnoff.
Inappropriate physical contact is a turnoff. Basically, remember that usually churches, government buildings and the homes of family members whom you are visiting are not places you want to be groped.
Other than that, another biggie is a lack of confidence. I think that a man should be cocky :D :) :D :)
Happy Humping!
For me the biggest turn off would have to be a strong lack of personal hygiene as SexySass69 stated. I'm also strongly opposed to terribly hairy men though my boyfriend falls somewhat under that catagory I can deal with it. I just think that gives you more reason to stay clean. The mentioning of ex's regularly makes me pretty stand-offish. My biggest turn off is inappropriate goofiness during seemingly intimate moments. I hate when a guy starts to act goofy when all you really want is a real, deep, intense kiss or intimacy.
smokers! i do NOT wanna kiss an ashtray!
I suspect, Passioncraze, that the goofiness you talk about might be a symptom of lack of confidence. Have you ever noticed how young guys often act very silly around girls they are interested in, to disguise the fact that they don't know what to do?
Agree with mcsgirl, too. Kissing a smoker is a real turn off. That nicotine taste - yuk! (And why is it that so many women seem to be smokers. Women smokers seem to outnumber men smokers these days.)