first we wanted to have a feeling off how he feels since we work together we both dont know him that very well but my wife choose him and im cool with it the only thing that bothers me is that he feels and my wife to that i can snap easly over any comment or say hug that i would take it in a wrong way during work .last night was the time to see if he was cool it was only my wife at the house i wasnt their they talk and then just felt each other with a hug.we talk after he left and she said his cool with it and just worried about how i would handle my self at work .{how can i fix this for me and him not to feeel weir about it}
Mon, 12/13/2010 - 09:00
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tryin to move on with a mmf threesome help
umm read this to yourself out load and then revise because i don't know what you are asking or anything
i got one answer for you.
LIQUOR.
and i wanted to say like dont you think there should be a section for MMF Threesome Positions? my boyfriend and I are going to have one TONIGHT and i was trying to find some good positions and this site i immediately thought would have them. GET AT ME.
Hey I just found this...
I hope I can help:D
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Hi,
Countless e-books and magazine articles have been written on this topic,how to help them.................
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Junior, my first suggestion is not to engage in any 3rd. party activities unless and until you get your temper under control, and this means with regard to all aspects of your relationship. A person who "flies off the handle" with little or no provocation, or, who is so sensitive or insecure as to take everything wrong, has issues with control, trust, and/or self esteem.
Second, you and your wife need to define goals and boundaries. Know ahead of inviting a third party to participate what each of you wants from the experience, expects from the experience, and, what will be tolerated or not. With this information set in stone, then inform the other person and get his/her approval.
Third, understand that threesomes do not always play out as hoped for. It is not unusual for one person to become jealous, hurt, and/or have the relationship falter and be severely damaged. I am not saying that this will happen, only that it can and sometimes does. You and your wife must be aware of signs of trouble and then handle whatever the issue is in a calm and positive manner. Getting mad, "snapping", or, losing your cool are not ways to manage these experiences.
Fourth, the two of you should approach any threesome as play, not romance. You must separate the two and not let your emotions run wild.
I hope this is of help. Got questions?
Okay - as one who DOES 3-somes, 4-somes and more-somes what you do is WHATEVER THE LADY WANTS in an MMF. The extra man is NOT a competitor, he's your "back-up", your "supporting actor", your "buddy in getting the mission accomplished". The mission is giving her the time of her life. The roles are reversed in a FFM of course. Forget the liquor - if you can't do it sober then you have no business doing it at all.
Homosexual and bisexual play is not mandatory nor should anyone automatically assume that such occurs. Anyone can say NO to anything at any time - no reason(s) need be given.
As for positions: just think geometry and work it out through experimentation. You have an imgaination - use it.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;262898]Okay - as one who DOES 3-somes, 4-somes and more-somes what you do is WHATEVER THE LADY WANTS in an MMF. The extra man is NOT a competitor, he's your "back-up", your "supporting actor", your "buddy in getting the mission accomplished". The mission is giving her the time of her life. The roles are reversed in a FFM of course. Forget the liquor - if you can't do it sober then you have no business doing it at all.
Homosexual and bisexual play is not mandatory nor should anyone automatically assume that such occurs. Anyone can say NO to anything at any time - no reason(s) need be given.
As for positions: just think geometry and work it out through experimentation. You have an imgaination - use it.[/QUOTE]
My wife and I often talk about entertaining the thought of having a 3 some MMF and ofter we will role play as we make love. My wife get's very excited as we bring this imaginary person into our session. If we watch any porn it hs to somewhere involve a 3rd person. My question to you based on your experinace is how do both us us take it to the next stage. We are strong in our relationship but I wouldn't want a friend to be involved....where do you go?
You will find getting a willing man to be the "third" amazingly easy - almost too easy. It pays to be picky. I recommend scoping out your local Lifestyle/Swing group (yes, there is one). There you will find experienced people who aren't going to get all "dramatic" about a threesome or "pushy" about it afterwards.
Depending upon the size of your community and/or the nearness to a large city, you can also check out the personal ads in the newspaper of your town or nearby large city.