this is a problem that i have too, i dont jut go totally soft as soon as it penetrates and i can always penetrate but sometimes i lose my erection although can sustain it durin masturbation, i duno y this is so i cani really help u there but i just thought id add the fact that it happens to me too lol. i wouldnt say that u r doin anythin wrong.

I'm no expert but here's an idea. Tell him to quit playin whith himself for a while. My guess is he's gotten used to that feel and the vagina (no fault of your's BTW) doesn't provide the same friction or feel. My guess is a couple of days without masturbateing or sex from you & he'll be able to cut diamonds in an ice storm with it! ;) Worth a try & cheaper & less embarassing than a trip to the doc.

yes this will work i think but, people who share this problem will basically have to stop masturbatin all together so that the vagina eventually becomes the best kind of stimulation. i am not worried bout this at all, my erection sometimes goes away but mainly only if we get goin really fast but if i slow down again it comes back, obviously this can become annoyin sometimes likes.

ok, i used to have this problem too, and well i i went a week with no sex or masturbation, that helped me and my fiancee out alot, hopefully it can help you out aswell... since i tend to be away on business often i have to redo this sometimes, tho not always, but its also a nice feeling to leave sex for a week or so aswell then go back into a full on sex fest with your lover.

[QUOTE=shireen;163518]Hey guys,

Idont know if this is the right place to post it but I have a weird problem. I have recently gotten married and although my husband can masturbate at will, he loses his erection as soon as he enters me. His erections are also not very hard and most of the times he is not able to penetrate. Yet he can masturbate easily.It would be really great if you could help me out.Am I doing something wrong here or do we need to consult a doctor etc? Any help would be appreciated. Thanks[/QUOTE]

This is a prime example of why pre-marital sex is a very good thing.

Can you say Performance Anxiety? Excess masturbation can cause small issues but nervousness is a true erection killer. I suggest having him lay down on the bed, belly up, and you doing body worship on him, during which he cannot move at all, followed by you riding him with his full participation.