So my virgin boyfriend and i(im a vcard holder too) decided that we were ready, but it didnt really happen:confused: he can't actually penetrate cuz it appears that my vagina is too small...what happens now?
Sat, 02/03/2007 - 06:36
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troubles with doing the deed
He needs to spend time before hand fingering you to loosen you up. Foreplay is the key to this.
well the thing is that he does do that, he can only fit one finger in there and when he tries to get his penis inside he can only fit about an inch or two before theres nothing more we can do
Two things:
T#1. Is the vaginal opening amply lubricated?
T#2. Is the entire penis amply lubricated?
It is one thing to be wet and quite another to have the lubrication distributed over the entire surface.
The same goes for the shaft of the penis. It may be dry and if there is any area of the vaginal opening not wet, then this could prevent him from slipping right in.
Before becoming sexually active, all women should have a gyn exam. Wish they did. If you are getting this close, it is time to see the doctor and get everything checked out. If it a tough hymen, that can be easily fixed. If it is something else, you should know about it before getting involved.
I can almost absolutely assure you that your vagina is not too small.