my bf and i have had sex about 4 times, but every time we have a problem w/ him falling out of me. i haven't had this happen very much before. is there anything that can be done? like certain positions or something? thanks.
Sun, 10/09/2005 - 03:51
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trouble with staying inside
This can usually be controlled by position. Try a few different ones.
If he has difficulty remaining fully erect, the positions are particularly important. Casting no aspersions, the weight of each of you can cause this. The lsim types can get a bit closer; heavier people have a "distancing" issue.
The only time that happens for me and my fiance is either when I'm thrusting too fast or I'm not hard enough.
It just take practice on both your parts is all.
My bf and didn't have that problem at first, but we were very conservative about our choice of positions and our...kinkiness, for lack of a better word. Once we started getting a little more comfortable and into it, that started happening some. If you want to keep having sex like that (and we did) it just takes practice. Now, that only happens when we change positions, which is fine by both of us!!
Yea some positions are better than others.
Also, just advise him maybe not to pull so far out when he's thrusting? Maybe that would work