Ok, i love my girlfriend.
We decided to try sleeping together. There was plenty of fingering and foreplay, and she was wet, but when it came to penetration, i couldn't get in, it just wouldn't go in. I'm sure i was hard enough. We had to give up.
Another time we tried, and she was wet again, and i tried to put it in and it wouldn't go again. I told her to guide me in and she tried, and when i would push, she said "Don't push it like that, it's gotta go up" or something, but i tried and she didn't say it was wrong, and then it wouldn't go again.
I'm not sure if she's maybe a little too tight, and she is quite small, only about 5ft 6 or something, or am i aiming at the wrong angle? I was pushing straight ahead, and it wouldn't seem to work.
My friends said i have to go down and then up, but in the missionary position, this is hard, and it's the only position she will try.
Any help/advice would be great.
We used protection both times. Thanks.
Kevin Foster.
Obviously No.1 is to make her very wet by whatever means (foreplay), but it also helps if u get her to make you wet as well. wat i mean by this is making her just partly give u a blow job (not making you orgasm) just before you penetrate. the saliva helps lubricate your penis and it helps it slide in easier. Going down on her for a while just before you penetrate helps even more with easy penetration(i guess that is wat you will be doing as you are using protection).
being on top also helps, the missionary position is a very good place to start ,lots of communication, relax, take it slow and have some portion of light in the room and let her guide you in.
goodluck
Anyone else care to help, i'd like to get alot of opinions on this.
Kev.
i acctually found it harder on top..
but when you ly straight on your back, say like on a bed, have the guy at the end of the bed, that way was alot more comfy, to "start with"...
well when you are in the missionary position or any position really you are aiming more towards her back and kind of up.
its not straight up towards her head or sideways towards her ass. its more of an angle.
i agree w/ girl12 that she should try to be on top that way she can guide you in and adjust herself to get the angle right.
she shouldn't be THAT small or tight... it would be different if she was like 4'11 or something.
is she a virgin still?
ive never really had this problem once my b/f has the tip of his penis inside me it always just slides on in no matter which angle he goes. just make sure she really really wet and it should be ok.
Thanks for the idea, it's always a way.
Anyone else got any help, i'm just really looking for the conformation of the angle to enter at in missionary, because maybe it's not her fault.
Kev.
i thiink maybe you should ask ur gf about this. maybe there is a way that feels comfortable to her. try new positions also. maybe let her be on top and then she can angle herself wherever she feels is right.
i hope i helped.