if you guys are just sitting around and your feeling that way offer to just give him a massage, tell him to take his shirt off so you can give him a really good one. make sure to stroke your hands up and down his entire back so he will automatically get turned on by you having your hands all over him. if he is lying on his stomach you can even straddle his butt while masagging him, which is a very sexy thing for some guys. after massaging him for a couple minutes lean forward and start kissing he back of his neck, you can suck on his ears and kiss all down his back while still massaging him. basically tease the hell outta him until he can't take it and just has to have his way with you . IF he doesn't quite catch on still, just tell him after a while that youwant to switch, and take off YOUR shirt.
if he doesn't get the hint yet, then i don't know what else to tell you!
GOOD LUCK!

From your description of the event, there seems to be a fine line between giving the lad a hint and taking the initiative. The belt idea is a good one that I would save for another time after he gets his signals straight. If there is a next time, try messing around a few inches further south. You can't do a lot to a penis through clothing but what you can do sends most of us a clear signal. Of course, you could just wait him out and do nothing at all and see how long it takes him to read that signal.

goodluck with it

yes, good luck with that.

but hey, what kind of dude doesnt take his girl fiddling with his belt as a hint for sex?

...no idea.

> ...no idea.

* Very reserved and conservative?
* Very cautious?
* Very confused?
* Very shy?
* Very straight laced?
* Very naive?
* Very scared?
* Very dense, intuitively?
* Very inexperienced?
* Very immature?
* Very disinterested having recently/just shot his wad?
* Very cruel?
* Very poor at reading "sign language"?
* Very preoccupied with something else?
* Very worried about being discovered if they do get into it?

Anybody else have some very good ideas?

well doc you said it all

how about very hunger for food....:rolleyes:

good point Doc.

[QUOTE]Very immature?[/QUOTE]

lol, you're right about that, could have thought she was messing with his belt to do something devious with it(with no sex intended)

[QUOTE]inexperienced?[/QUOTE]

and i dont agree with this, because im not expirienced, well, for my age i guess i am, but i could take a hint *that close to my penis* you know?

maybe some people wouldnt, but that still is pretty obvious.

well doc there goes my theory lol. All of those are good points

very good ones indeed :D

except the in experienced one...you would think any guy mature enough to have a girlfriend who wants sex and likes him enough to have it, then he should be phsyically and mentally able to comprehend what fiddling with the belt he has on his waist means.

naturally one would assume when the opposite sex has their hands within a few inches of your personal area, that some sort of physical intimacy is intended but who knows

i agree with that, but the belt itself...thats different. i mean, if she played with the belt, naturally she did more than just brush up against it...well i hope..

well we are over analyzing the situation here. maybe the guy just wasnt feelin it at the moment, theres a million possibilities and far too many what ifs. all we can do is hope she gets the message through more clearly next time

well ya...i think she will...since she did say that he did start to pick up what she wanted, but the time was too limited for any actual quenching of her lust for sex....

heres to hopin he realises sooner.