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trigger points

I'm seeing this woman who has a very definite trigger point on the right side of her neck slightly behind her ear. If I give this spot firm kisses, a little suckling, and licking, she will have an orgasm within a minute or two from it.

This woman is highly sexual and multi-orgasmic, which may contribute to the overall nature of it, but I'm wondering... do many women have these sort of non-sexual trigger points?

Many? I don't know. I searched for you, but could only find next to nothing on erogenous zones and a little research about multi-orgasmic women. [url=http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/question/how-many-women-reach-orgasm-mul... SexInfo Online - How Many Women Reach Orgasm/Multiple Orgasms During Sex? This website claims to be devoted to comprehensive sex education based on the best research we have to date and is maintained by university students from the University of California, Santa Barbara who have studied advanced topics in human sexuality.

This line of research is still "young". Apart from vaginal, clitoral, breast-stimulation, I don't think there has been any representative research yet on which erogenous zones cause a woman to achieve orgasm and how many women do from which sort of stimulation. Except for that we know there are erogenous zones and which zones that are differs each person (the entire skin could be called potential erogenous zone :)) "Erogenous" means it can be erotically stimulated, I don't think it implies achieving orgasm from it.

Are there women that do? Sure! You've just met one and here's another posting :) Apart from clitoral, vaginal and breast-stimulation, I can also achieve orgasm by pressure on my lower back, soft stroking of my back or stomach (on either side: particularly where the ribcage ends), kissing of my neck, licking or fumbling with my ears, massaging my buttocks, and perhaps even more :rolleyes: The fun part of it is that one area seems to create "smaller" or "bigger" orgasms, so you can create a build-up. Or while she's having a full-body-orgasm, make it last longer by using one of the other triggerpoints. Works that way with me, perhaps it also does for her. Btw; typically: even the area's I could stimulate by myself, are not enough to get me to orgasm while I masturbate.

According to Dr. Graffenberg, discoverer of the G-Spot, there isn't a part of a woman's body that ISN'T erogenous.

Most of the sexual response is in the brain. If someone is turned on enough with enough anticipation for things to feel good, a soft breath will give them an orgasm. The fun is finding all of the more sensitive spots and how to get someone into that state of mind to begin with!

In short, we ALL have them. Even if some of us refuse to recognize or respond to them.

I agree with EEK, I have it on my neck and my boobs make me have an orgy and my thighs being rubbed and kissed, we are tickling elmos, we get so hot we r soo red just like him lol..haha but yeah any woman has some spot that does not involve sex but leads up to it.

[QUOTE=jill.whitewine;274588]How do you think your woman would feel about you posting such a personal thing about her in such a public place?

How about you just ask her about it? I'm sure she'll be more than willing to talk to you, if you just ask.

AND... what's the real reason you are asking if other women have this trigger point? You thinking about seeking out others for a little extra fun?

Go and be with your woman!!! You should feel lucky to have such a highly sexual and multi-orgasmic woman that WANTS you.[/QUOTE]

Easy killer, his question isn't about his girlfriend per se but about women in general so she wouldn't know if all women or other women have a simular spot.

also my girlfriend has one as well, different place though

How would she feel?

How do you think your woman would feel about you posting such a personal thing about her in such a public place?

How about you just ask her about it? I'm sure she'll be more than willing to talk to you, if you just ask.

AND... what's the real reason you are asking if other women have this trigger point? You thinking about seeking out others for a little extra fun?

Go and be with your woman!!! You should feel lucky to have such a highly sexual and multi-orgasmic woman that WANTS you.

I can't speak for HT off course, but I agree with Weasel. Plus; this forum may be public, but it is also anonymous. And to immediately assume he's looking for fun on the side when asking this, probably says a lot about the way you think:rolleyes: Even if he does, it's his choice whatever he wants to do with the information received. This is a place to ask those things you usually can't, to share and learn from eachother in a respecting, honest and open environment. I do definitely agree on the part that he should feel lucky, though! :)

Brandye is correct. We all have those spots; both men and women. Anywhere that we have nerve endings can be an erogenous zones. Masters and Johnson first said that in the 1960s. I have found it to be true repeatedly over the past 4 decades.