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> this might sound stupid but how are you suppose to transition from either giving the guy oral to having sex or from like him giving you oral to having sex??

The only stupid question is the one not asked. Your questions are why this site exists and the members contribute.

I recommend that you read up on the how-to of making out in all of its various forms. Here are some articles from the Index. Knowledge is empowering.

KISSING & CARESSING--a young person's guide to EXPLORATION

Chapter Three: Please scroll down to this Chapter, then read Chapter One and the others in succession.
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS / and the gentle art of Making Out, FIRST

For Men and Women Only- Breasts and Play

The Program
Your guide to wild rampant skin-on-skin full-body-contact sex.

Body Worship How-To

FOREPLAY: The Prequel and Sequel

I'm Ready for SEX! (or am I?) I really want to do it.

What Can I/We Do To Prepare For First Time Intercourse?

> Likw what are you suppose to say to him to let him know your ready to move on to the next thing??

Communication and feedback are key ingredients.

* (Verbal} Whisper to him that you are ready
* (Non-verbal} Motion for him to do whatever is to be next or to get into position

* You take over and up the ante' when you want to move from one type of caress to the next
* You get into position or initiate getting yourselves into position, as appropriate

A relationship is a partnership; so too is the romantic part. Making love is not what we do to each other, it is what we do with an for each other. The partnership aspect means that each partner can trade off being the lead or initiator.

Please read the section on making out that discusses beginning with A and moving to B, etc., etc. Next, read what I have to say about "Implied Consent".

I hope this is of help. After doing your homework, please do not hesitate to ask additional questions.

"I want that thing in me - now!!!"

Just move! Jeez! If you're doing something - stop and move along. If he's doing something - chances are he'll get the hint because he can't hit a moving target.

say "I want you to f*ck me" !!! lol
that usually gets things going in the right direction :)

To the person who complained about my 'tone' - perhaps you are new here?
There are scads of very nice people acting as counselors on this site. Therefore, already being supplied with plenty of nice people, my job here is to apply Reality Counseling. If this means I must slam a brick upside your head to get the message through - well, I'm nothing loathe.

Being 'nice' is not my job.
Kicking you when you need being kicked - that is my job.

For example: here this lady seemed to feel that she should just be lying there during sex and she wonders how to get him from point a to point b. I can tell you and her that nothing is worse than a "dead lay". If you want his full attention then you have to put a little effort into sex and NOT just lie there. MOVE! PARTICIPATE! BE ACTIVE! RISE UP AND TACKLE HIM! Being enthusiastic about enjoying sex with him is rarely a 'turn off' for most men in this world.

That's my job.
Got it?