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Toys needed for orgasm? - is it true?

Hello,

I need some feedbacks from users of sex toys.
Is it true that when u do a sexual intercourse its kinda hard to reach orgasm? In this case then u'd need sex toys to please u, is it really like that?
Most women (in my datas) couldnt feel orgasm because its hurt when an ejaculated penis got in to their vaginas, so they use dildos and vibrators to make them orgasm.

Comments please...

thx;)

everyone is different. Some ppl do have to use toys when there is a penis in them but just because it is easier to orgasm from the cliterous than from the g spot but if you have a man that can hit that g spot and use a toy on the clit it is like a double explosion. double the orgasm. but not everyone likes the toys and like i said everyone is different.

Most women dont orgasm from penile thrusting alone, they need some sort of clitoral stimulation whether its w/ a hand or a toy.
I fall into this catergory and I will usually use my hand, but after it starts to tire out, I will use a small vibe on my clit, and that always helps me orgasm better.

What demon said... except I usually have to use my hand (as I've tried vibrators and they do nothing for me). I've never reached orgasm through penetration alone. Don't ever expect to, but anything is possible really. I never expected anyone to get me off during oral and he managed to do that several times last time, so yea, anything is possible.

And as star said as well, everyone is different and uses different techniques to help them.

[FONT="Comic Sans MS">[SIZE="3">[COLOR="DarkSlateGray">It depends on the person & situation... some need both some don't... there are time that I can reach orgasm as is w/ out any foreplay or extra stimuli w/ my man but then there are times that he tries everything & the only thing that can get me off is if "I double click my mouse" hee...hee...hee...:D Again everyone is different. Sex toys are fun, but they aren't for everyone either. I like using them alone & w/ my man, but we don't use them all the time either.

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There are new toys that you actually can stick on the fingers of the hand that will assist in the clit Stimulation, just incase no one new. below is a example of the product..

http://www.delightsoftheflesh.com/store/index.php?main_page=product_info...

"Marital Aids"

An old term for sex toys was/is "marital aids". What that means is that things like vibrators are used by a couple in bed to enhance the joy for either or both partners.

My personal experience is that giving my lover oral sex while she uses a vibrator gives her multiple-multiple orgasms--after which she will give me ANYTHING I desire!:D

I'm with demon and thetease on this one :) .

It all depends on the toy, and how frequent you use it. If the stimulation is SOO different compared to sex, then it may take you a while to get into the swing of things. However if you use a toy that's supposed to closely simulate a sexual act, then you'll likely enjoy sex even MORE!

[QUOTE=JCLi;152755]Hello,

I need some feedbacks from users of sex toys.
Is it true that when u do a sexual intercourse its kinda hard to reach orgasm? In this case then u'd need sex toys to please u, is it really like that?
Most women (in my datas) couldnt feel orgasm because its hurt when an ejaculated penis got in to their vaginas, so they use dildos and vibrators to make them orgasm.

Comments please...

thx;)[/QUOTE]

It really depends on the person. I honestly can orgasm with a penis in me. Me and my partner only use sex toys to spice things up more meaning that we use the toys either in foreplay, while doing it, or even after and not all the time to orgasm because it will definitely seem routine. There are other factors that can affect you and reaching orgasm.

If you are interested in sex toys and all other stuff, I would recommend this website called wantsomecandy.com. Me and my partner get our toys there. Here's a link so you can check it out.

http://store.wantsomecandy.com

with help of...

well,sometimes my husband and i need it and sometimes we do use the Diamond Ring at the same time that gives an extra tingle.:)

wantsomecandy

Diamond Ring

[QUOTE=chrisalextine_31126;159547]It really depends on the person. I honestly can orgasm with a penis in me. Me and my partner only use sex toys to spice things up more meaning that we use the toys either in foreplay, while doing it, or even after and not all the time to orgasm because it will definitely seem routine. There are other factors that can affect you and reaching orgasm.

If you are interested in sex toys and all other stuff, I would recommend this website called wantsomecandy.com. Me and my partner get our toys there. Here's a link so you can check it out.

http://store.wantsomecandy.com[/QUOTE]

The Prices are not that good, i have seen some products for a cheaper price. Also the products are good quality as well, like every market the key is to look around and try and stay away from Flashy sites that run 24 / 7 Phone lines that give advice. Lets face it, it costs money to run these lines and they have to recop the price somehow.

My wife can orgasm without (usually takes her by suprise, very quick and intense), but generaly it takes some foreplay and some gentle fingering of the clitoris. There are a few other spots that can set her off while we are having sex.......these can be around the back, nipples or either side of her breasts. Different times, different places, different types of orgasm.

I find the toys get in the way when we are having sex, its best as a seperate session or as foreplay.

[QUOTE=teeny;159659]well,sometimes my husband and i need it and sometimes we do use the Diamond Ring at the same time that gives an extra tingle.:)

wantsomecandy

Diamond Ring[/QUOTE]

Are you going to advertise your site at the bottom of every post or are you here to really help people and exchange ideas ?

[QUOTE=Openmindedguy;159609]My wife can orgasm without (usually takes her by suprise, very quick and intense), but generaly it takes some foreplay and some gentle fingering of the clitoris. There are a few other spots that can set her off while we are having sex.......these can be around the back, nipples or either side of her breasts. Different times, different places, different types of orgasm.

I find the toys get in the way when we are having sex, its best as a seperate session or as foreplay.[/QUOTE]

To be honest most do, there are things like Strap-on Clit stims that are suppose to be usefull in getting women off while having sex, but even they are a bit of a pain in the ass a small amount of the time.

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