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Touching ...

Hi all, am new around here so bear with me!

I havent had sex with my boyfriend yet and this will probably sound really stupid, but when we are kissing and cuddling etc. he always touches me in all the right places that make me feel great. I really dont know how to go about doing the same for him as Ive never really been intamite with anyone like this before.
I really love him and would like a few tips as to how I should touch him (crazy question I know). Basically what feels good, gentle rubbing, or holding his penis or a combo?
Hes more than happy to wait until Im ready for things to progress, and Im dying to get my hands on him but I dont know how to without hurting him by not knowing what im doing. any tips as to what feels good would be appreciated. Geez I hope you all understood what Im trying to get at lol.

I like to have my inner thighs stroked while I'm fingering my lady-friend. The anticipation as to whether or not she'll grab my penis is very wonderful. . .

Not knowing how far you want to go I will kind of go down the line, speaking from personal experience. I'm also not sure how much you know / how much detail you want, so I'm sorry if this comes off wrong....

Without touching the penis I like it when my girlfriend rubs her hands up and down my back. Basicaly just moving her hands around my body is good. When she grabs my hair it really turns me on because I know she is into what we are doing.

As far as being a bit more direct.... Just reaching down and holding him is sure to get him excited. Gentle squeezing and rubbing is nice. If you want to masturbate him just wrap your hand around his shaft and move up and down.

I wouldn't worry too much about hurting him. Unless you use a fair amount of force it shouldn't hurt, and if something is uncomfortable he will let you know. Communication is key. And I'm sure he'll be thrilled that you are making the effort.

Well I dont know about the other men on here but for starters, my girl touching my chest while I'm fingering her almost always gets me going.Just caressing his torso is a good way to go,most of the time. Now,this is what you have to decide.If you are going to go all the way with him the next time you guys are together, if you like,you can slowly proceed down to grabbing his "manhood."This should let him know that you are ready to go all the way with him.

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