Hi there everyone. My name is Dan and I am 19 years old. Just a little about myself: I just recently had sex for the first time with my girlfriend. I recently lost 60 lbs, got the girl I had been looking for and fell in love with her. There are several reasons why I waited but I did and it isn't a big deal. Anyway, we finally made the decision to have sex and went through with it about a month ago. Our 1st time was wierd and I knew it would be but I did last about 25 minutes so I was kind of happy. She didn't bleed but she is very athletic and very trustworthy so I figured she lost her hymen some other way. Anyways, I thoght after that sex would be nothing but amazing but I was wrong. Our second time lasted like 2 minutes and our 3rd time lasted like 5 minutes before I pulled out and made an excuse on why I had to stop. Our latest time I had masterbated a few hours earlier and lasted about 20 minutes but it was very awkward because we tried new positions and it was awkward. We tried doggy but ut just didn't work and we had to be quiet because her people were over. So my questions are... will I ever last a decent amount of time?? When will things become more natural and flow better?? I don't want to have to worry about lasting the entire time i'm haviing sex. I have ocd and every time we have sex I think a ton about everything possible. (after...I have been working on getting rid of my ocd and don't think about things when I'm with her anymore.) Well, any help would be much appreciated. Thanks.
dan machook
20 mins isnt bad man! why cant u two 'do it' when theres nobody around? and yeh..its does get better the more you do it
ytou will get better with experience and the actual act of intercourse (your penis in the vagina going in and out9 should last longer than 10-15 minutes or she will probably just get sore. you need to spend more time on foreplay etc.
tou will get better with experience and the actual act of intercourse (your penis in the vagina going in and out) should last longer than 10-15 minutes or she will probably just get sore. you need to spend more time on foreplay etc.
Lasting 25 minutes first time! Man you are mind blowing! What more can you ask for? But I cant understand why at the later stage there has been such contrasting time compared to the first. Anyways it is quite normal to last 4/5 minutes and you should not make an impression that you are going to last for the eternity. If you still want to improve then I think you would get your answer by simply browsing the other sections of this forum itself.
a lil like me.
my 1st time lasted 20mins and it was really good but from then it felt shorter. iv been having sex with my girlfriend quite a few times now and the last time we have had sex it was long again. everything felt like its going to last longer from now on and masterbation last longer also since our last time so im sure things are going to work out for you.