Has anyone ever been extremely sexually attracted to someone, and then one day it just goes away. Basically heres the story. I was having some trouble getting over the ex. We had been fwb for a little bit. Had sex probably 9 or 10 times since we split, and then she wanted to stop so I said ok. Then one day we started talking and it ended up with me showing her ;) sex positions and she got horny, and we had sex.
But then like as soon as we started, I realized it shouldnt have happened.She
had no problem with it, (although after she agreed it shouldnt have happened). Now I dont find myself getting hard when I am around her, I dont find myself longing to kiss her and its as if I have no attraction to her whatsoever. (Just a true friendship, platonic sort of love).
Does this make any sense to yall? I mean I am glad that it happened because I wanted to have sex with someone and was coming close to testosterone poisoning. (although I didnt cum) and it definitely helped to not be heartbroken or anything. But its kinda weird, especially since my libido has kicked up since I started running again, and I check EVERYONE out.
Perhaps you figured out you are not in love with her?
Sometimes our bodies tell us what our minds do not want to think.
Sera your reasoning (and brandye's) do make a lot of sense, but at the same time I have had sex outside of love with no problem. So who knows.
EDIT: Wait brandye did you mean that as in perhaps I am not so much into females?
[quote=Ducy;215059]Sera your reasoning (and brandye's) do make a lot of sense, but at the same time I have had sex outside of love with no problem. So who knows.
EDIT: Wait brandye did you mean that as in perhaps I am not so much into females?[/quote]
I don't see where Brandye stated anything of such. Perhaps you are just not into her, your ex, and thought what you felt is no longer real (emotions attached). And sex without any emotions, not an issue since you already know the boarders.
No, no, no. Sometimes our sexual response switches for reasons we may not want to face. As a friend with benefits, I burned out and just simply could no longer respond. Men have this happen as well.
Haha okay, yea I had a feeling thats what you meant (burnt out) but at the same time I figured with my luck I would misunderstand everything.
And sera when I said (and brandye) I was simply referring to the body says what the mind doesnt want to think.
Oh no Ducy.. have you turned yourself gay? LOL jk :)
[quote=demonbuttercup;215086]Oh no Ducy.. have you turned yourself gay? LOL jk :)[/quote]Too funny Demon...perhaps it was his ex and he is turning from her male gay friend which rubbed off on poor Ducy. Haha...I can laugh, you know why; once you DUCY wondered if you turned women gay!!!!;) Now the roles are reversed? Geez...I have to joke with you since you felt so long ago Ducy it was contagious like a disease!!! We still love you though!!!;)
To boot, perhaps DVD, Oberon, & Brandye can tell you just how contagious it is; NOT! :)
....wow...just wow HAHAHA :D
Ducy; If you have such powers; would you mind turning me into a "Fairy Princess"? Please, I would like to exude such 'powers/influence' over those men I have interest in and make all my dreams come true. PLEASE.....:eek::p
I'd prefer to wave my 'magic wand' and walla the 'toads' are transformed in to my Prince.;)
Switch Hitting..........?:eek:
[quote=constantlylearning;215092]Switch Hitting..........?:eek:[/quote]
Doubt Ducy is a 'switch-hitter'...LOL! He is cute.
Definitely not a switch hitter. I prefer basketball or football. I think it requires a bit more talent.
Or were you talking about orientation?!?!
Haha jk.
And your wish is my command sera, I mean hey you already have power over me LOL!
Just think Ducy, what I could do in reverse; for every "not so nice man"--I could wave the wand and turn him in to a toad! Might be many going ribbbbbitttttt....LOL!:eek:
Or just bat your eyelashes and turn them to a puddle of goo. This world would be one wet place ROFL!
[quote=Ducy;215127]Or just bat your eyelashes and turn them to a puddle of goo. This world would be one wet place ROFL![/quote]
That gets me in trouble! I like the toads with the wand better!!!
Ducy, she is a DIVA watchout........Deborah look alike and all. A hottie.
Sera stay away from the toads they will give you warts didn't you know
that?
Yes, I know; however, I figured might as well turn the jerks into toads!
Also, the Debbie H. look was way back in HS...the platinum blond was an accident! But the one pic. Oedi put up was what I looked like when about 17...been a few years, darker blond with a traditional style! Time goes on & we all age. All depends on how we choose to look and if we age gracefully! Since the major hair cut; keep a 'tight bob' & when done well, can still have that wild look...LOL!
All of us rock star types have platinum blonde hair...
Congratulations, Ducy - you've moved on.