my girl gets wet... amazingly, wow, dang >.> wet. Its very exciting and turns me on a lot. Recently though she has expressed some frustration when she gets too wet in certain positions, mostly when she is on top, she cant feel herself or me and her pleasure is lost and her exciement drops off :(
when we get together again i was going to suggest she just keep going, and the pleasure should intensify, personally i think she could get so turned on she would squirt :D
however im also wondering if other women have had this problem and what they have done about it. my girl is a little inexperienced and could use some muscle control techniques to help her get to better orgasms, so im am specualting that perhaps use of some muscle techniques might help compenste for her extreme wetness?
Wetness? Not much you can do about it, there is no control over it as you mentioned. I find if I take a warm bath for a bit before it decreases the excessive fluids!
oh, interesting, i did not think about bathing as a method to pull out some moisture, thanks for the suggestion ^ ^
I gush when I cum and love being on top since I can control the action and stimulate exactly where it feels best! My man gets so turned on when I get him soaked underneath me that it makes him cum too even though the position isn't the best for him otherwise as his movements are more limited. The lack of sensation she's experiencing might be from the desensitization in general from prolonged intercourse and multiple orgasms!
If the wetness turns you on, tell her that. She might be embarrased by it. Make sure that isnt an issue.
Sadly if its still an issue after that, the shower is the best option to minimize wetness before sex, although if you dont stay in the shower she will get that wet agian at some point. Some girls produce lots of fluid when they become sexualy excited, some dont, once she becomes comfterble with her wetness level, and understands your cool with it, she should be fine. Sounds like a self esteem issue to me.
We both really enjoy how extremely wet she becomes, it's very exciting, noisy, and it feels wonderful. It is not an issure of her mental discomfort with the amount of fluids produced. What i am suggesting is that if she had better inner muscle control, she may be able to grab hold of me and control the level of sensation she is receiving better. It may also be as Love2BLoved suggests, too much sex and too much stimulation. What we end up doing is moving to another position or go to oral sex while she cools off, but i really feel with some more attention she could be quite a gusher! :D WE are both very turned on by each other, and i am hoping to understand more so i can continue to bring her greater pleasure, while still enjoying the hell out her amazingly juicy pussy ^ ^