Okay, I've seemed to always have a problem getting too wet once I'm horny. Sometimes I get wet and don't even realize I'm horny. I know that it's good lubrication for sex and everything, but in the meantime, I'm a virgin and I just want to be able to enoy fingering and oral sex without my ocean of a p**** killing the feeling. I've used towels before to try to stay dry but the flood warning watch keeps coming back on. Is there something that I can do to be dryer? And if not, how can I achieve that orgasm?
Mon, 07/12/2004 - 12:18
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Too wet to have an orgasm
i have the same problem... after sex the bed sheets are completely drained... idk, i think its annoying and it bothers me to change the sheets every time after intercourse... and its just embarassing... andything i/we can do?
I have the same problem of being too wet most of the time, i have idea what to do about it
i dunno.
i have trouble staying wet enough sometimes.
i have real bad sinuses and have to constantly take OTC medicine for it, like sudafed...etc.
most allergy meds that dry up your sinuses also dry up every other orfice. i can tell. my eyes and mouth stay dry as well.
Interesting. Unusual to state this as a problem - it is much more common to wonder if they are too dry.
We secrete our lubrication very differently from woman to woman. The onse certainty is that we are always draining. FFor some it is noticeable only by the slight smell in their pants at the end of the day. Others actually have to change during the day. I have seen descriptions that have some absolutely dripping (literally) during arousal but I would believe that to be rare. This can vary during our menstrual cycle. During my peak days, I have definite wetness just walking around leaving a shilling sized spot in the "modesty panel" of my bloomers. At the ends of cycle, nothing more than an occasional little spot. During my period, it is irrelevant because there is plenty of other lubrication.
Too much lubrication will, physically, not hamper an orgasm. In fact it is to your advantage. Most men are a bit rougher on the clitoris than we actually want and the added lubrication helps the hood dlip around and and reduces the friction from his fingers. If you are developing a psychological hangup about it, that could be a different issue. Our orgasms can be stopped by psychological or emotional factors more easily than by physical factors.
There is nothing to be done except keep clean and, as you appear to be doing, keep a towel handy. My partners seem to appreciate that anyway. As do I when the drainage starts after his orgasm.
really demon? i have the same sinus troubles but never knew that lol
i dont' have a wetness or lack of problem
I am sorry poetic. i don't know what youd do for that except what brandeye says.
i feel bad tho it would seem that you should be wet to enjoy it. my guy loves when i am really wet.