Alright... I cant believe I am actually posting a question. I am quite the shy type and dont discuss such things!
I OFTEN get very very wet when I am having sex, foreplay, etc. I was with the same woman for 6 years so it wasnt a problem anymore. Well, I am just now venturing on to someone new. I get very embarrassed about it. Just wondering if people find that to be a turn on or off. And if it is not good... any suggestions to get my body to 'slow it down'. LOL
Thanks for any feedback.


Nothing to be embarrassed about.... some people produce a lot...so not enough and have to use over the counter lubes.
If anything, it tells the other person how turned on you are..therefore it turns them on.
Only setback is some guys on here have said that if their g/f is too TOO wet, they can't feel intercourse as well, b/c there is no friction. You are stating you are in relationships w/ women... so this doesn't really apply.
From a guys stand point, aside from the friction problem that demonbuttercup pointed out, It is awesome when a woman gets really wet. Makes me think that I'm doing something right;) I would assume that a woman would think the same thing.
I am confused. You get too wet. You were with the same woman for six years.
Honey, those of us who do it with other women do not have to worry how wet or dry!
Your body does what it does and there is nothing you can do except keep a towel handy.
keeping a towel handy is nice yes. My opinion is its EXTREMELY sexy when a girl gets that wet. I don't know if you are a "squirter" or if u just get extremely wet and thats all. Either way its sexy as hell to me. I don't know if you and your partner do a lot of fingering, but to me, when I finger a girl and she gets that wet, the sound it makes is so sexy and it only makes me want to continue to please.
I have the same problem. I get very wet, and I am also shy about talking about it. My boyfriend tells my that it's fine, and that he actually likes it. Although I am happy that he enjoys it, it tends to take down my pleasure. Is there any ways to become 'less wet'?
Excess moisture is something which always happened to me. I found a nice warm bath to soak before helps decrease the fluid.
[QUOTE='jenn[ital];179461']I have the same problem. I get very wet, and I am also shy about talking about it. My boyfriend tells my that it's fine, and that he actually likes it. Although I am happy that he enjoys it, it tends to take down my pleasure. Is there any ways to become 'less wet'?[/QUOTE]
Yes, bathing, sex in water shower or anywhere where there is enough water.
Also, diet also has some importance here. I only read what you should pay attention to if you are not et enough: get enough fat, especially oils; pleanty of water, never get dehydrated; then soya products also should help. If you eat plenty of these, that could be why you get so wet. On the other hand, even though not getting enough fat would probably mean you'd get "dryer", that would also be unhealthy.