Sometimes, when my guy and I are going at it, I get really aroused and really wet. However, he get's unaroused if I'm -too- wet. I was wondering if this happened to any other guys and why this was? Thanks.
Tue, 04/18/2006 - 06:34
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Too wet?
the wetter the better
I can't imagine why he would be turned off by your being "too wet," unless it's due to a medical issue. I agree with "the wetter the better"!
Sometimes if you are too wet, it can almost feel like the penis isn't even being touched. There can be a sort of loss of feeling. I'm not sure I'm really explaining this right but it happens with me and my boyfriend sometimes. If I create too much lubricant during sex it can get to the point where he isn't feeling as much. The best solution to this problem would be to have a little intermission. Stop the sex and give yourself a chance to calm down or "dry up" in a sense. You can even use a towel if you must. During this time you have a chance to do other things. You could give him a handjob, he could finger you, you could perform oral. The key thing is that you take a break but find a way to keep the stimulation going.
My BF has told me this too. He says there isn't enough friction when I am that wet and it makes it harder for him to orgasm. Usually this is only a problem when we are going for multiples - he seems to need a lot more friction and harder touching to orgasm a second time.
The only thing we've done to solve this problem is take an intermission like was suggested. We just switch to a different activity - if he complains about not enough friction I usually give him a hand job because my hands are dry but he's still wet enough himself from having been inside me. After toweling off and taking a few mins away from it, I am less wet, so my BF says.
I tend to be overly wet by nature and sometimes he loves it but sometimes he says he wishes he didn't turn me on so much - haha!