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Too small to please? Please help

yes i know there are a million threads about size but this is a "is my penis too small to please?" thread. I know size doesnt really matter as i have slowly figured out but i am wondering what you women comsider to be "small", "o.k.", and "large". I am 6" long and 5" thick erect. And about 4" long and about 5" thick when limp. my height is 5'7" and 140lbs. Just wonderin what you women think about where i fall in the three. Yes i know i am pretty much average. And the only reason i am wondering this is this girl i know really wants to have sex but she said she will never chance something small. an if i fall in that range she will probably humiliate the hell out of me in front of my friends even though the girl im messing with right now says im pretty good in bed.. so just wondering. and sorry so long.

:rolleyes:
If you have a girl that you are having fun w/ and appreciates you and what you do... why mess w/ some chick who says... she chance any guy w/ a small penis...what kind of statement is that???
Completely shallow and selfish if you ask me!

basically she is saying that if i am small she wont even try having sex she will just laugh. and the girl i am with now is pretty much just a friend if you get what i mean and that is a mutual agreement. i have asked her and she just says well your not that bad off. but i want to know what other woman think that wont hold anything back. i mean if you think im small then say so you bothering me.

I'm bothering you?? LOL

oops!!! lolol no. i ment to say if someone says yes your kinda small then your not bothering me i just would like to save the embarrisment if it is so........its 1:00am and the words look like one line. lol

So, you are not large but you are a nice size if you know what to do with it! Been with men who were "huge" and had no idea how to use it. Then there were those who are microscopic and cannot use it either. Honest opinion...hit the right spots and send her to the moon!

but my point is if i cant get the chance because i fall in the "small" group then i cant send her to the moon.

[quote=horndog;191385]but my point is if i cant get the chance because i fall in the "small" group then i cant send her to the moon.[/quote]
You are not in the small group.

6" is not small for an erect penis. It is average. Very, very average. Average is good. Average size vaginas like average size penises.

Only the meanest girls in the world would actually laugh at the size of anyone's penis. And your size is nothing to laught at.

Penis size is much more important to men than to women. You'll find this out on your own over time if you carefully listen to the different ways males and females talk about penises and sexual pleasure.

What makes a good sex partner is NOT the size of his penis. Some huge guys are duds in bed, believe me! BTDT!

Please read this:

For Boys Only- A Matter of Size (Regarding your penis)

It was written just for questions like this and to help stop posts like this from adding to what is a very very very very l o n g list.

Six inches is right in the middle of average.

The size flaccid can be anything from about 1/2" on up to and including the same size as erect, just soft. Guys sporting the latter type just get hard and the angle of their penis probably changes. A flaccid penis waxes and wains in length throughout the day.

I think what you should do is ask her what her definition of small is when she gets "smart" with you. Lol. Then you will know. For me you are not small. 6 is the right size in my opinion. Gets all the right spots.

Now I know some women that would think it is in a smaller group though. In a way it just has to do with the way she is made or what she's ust too. So you would just have to ask her really.

Either she'll get a nice surprise or maybe you should just stick with what you have for the moment.

[quote=horndog] And the only reason i am wondering this is this girl i know really wants to have sex but she said she will never chance something small. an if i fall in that range she will probably humiliate the hell out of me in front of my friends even though the girl im messing with right now says im pretty good in bed.. so just wondering. and sorry so long. [/quote]

The question now becomes why are you willing to accept such behavior? Are you so desperate that you will hang on rather than explore your options?

That "she will never chance something small" shows her ignorance.

Whether she does or does not humiliate the hell out of you, you should either shut the relationship down, or, rein her in and tell her that her attitude is unacceptable. If your fears come true and she does tattle about any intimate and private details it is not only wrong, it is self-serving, juvenile, immature, vindictive, spiteful behavior. In her attempt to make you look bad, what do you suppose others will think about her? "Cute" or "funny" if they are as immature as she is, disappointed and disgusted if they are much wiser.

In a healthy relationship the people involved are there by choice for the greater good, build each other up, and to make the association greater than the sum of its parts. That this person would denigrate you to others is more than likely going to backfire on her in the long run.

I'm wondering why you would put any more time and energy into this knowing what you now know.

It sounds like you have a very nice thing going, put your effort into this relationship.

I agree w/ Summer... ask her what is "small" to her.
To most you are average or in the upper area of average... to this chick.. small might be anything under 8inches!

[QUOTE]That "she will never chance something small" shows her ignorance.

Whether she does or does not humiliate the hell out of you, you should either shut the relationship down, or, rein her in and tell her that her attitude is unacceptable. If your fears come true and she does tattle about any intimate and private details it is not only wrong, it is self-serving, juvenile, immature, vindictive, spiteful behavior. In her attempt to make you look bad, what do you suppose others will think about her? "Cute" or "funny" if they are as immature as she is, disappointed and disgusted if they are much wiser.
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Doc sums it up quite nice
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How old are ya'll??? High school age I am guessing?!?

[QUOTE=horndog;191374]basically she is saying that if i am small she wont even try having sex she will just laugh.[/QUOTE]
My own self: I wouldn't have anything to do with someone who says things like that. The attitude is just all wrong.

Then again: is she joking? That seems entirely possible, but I don't know the girl, or the way she said it.

theres a good chance that she is just saying that and would most likely try it any way. so i am going to see what happens because i am not too worried now. i just know if i get the chance shes will be going crazy. by the way i am 20.

OOKay.............

6" is normal. Most guys are around that size, and its certainly enough to please a woman. Remember, its not what you've got, but how you use it that matters.

Don't worry about it as long you know you're doing with it, it won't matter that much. There have been a couple times I have been pleasantly surprised by someone who was on the smaller side. By the way, 6" is average so you have even less to worry about.

Actually - you are just about the OPTIMAL size; neither too small nor too large. Just make sure you buy the right size condoms and learn how to properly use what you have and you'll do just fine.

I think 6" is pretty normal size, honestly I wouldnt want to be with some1 like that if its true what you say about her. If you know how to use ut great.

No worries mate, I'm close to your size as well and of the eight women that I'v had sex with I believe only one may have had an issue with my average size though she never said so. In my somewhat limited experience, if I woman knows her body and what will make her orgasm she will find a way.

I disagree.

[QUOTE=horndog;191368]yes i know there are a million threads about size but this is a "is my penis too small to please?" thread. I know size doesnt really matter as i have slowly figured out but i am wondering what you women comsider to be "small", "o.k.", and "large". I am 6" long and 5" thick erect. And about 4" long and about 5" thick when limp. my height is 5'7" and 140lbs. Just wonderin what you women think about where i fall in the three. Yes i know i am pretty much average. And the only reason i am wondering this is this girl i know really wants to have sex but she said she will never chance something small. an if i fall in that range she will probably humiliate the hell out of me in front of my friends even though the girl im messing with right now says im pretty good in bed.. so just wondering. and sorry so long.[/QUOTE]

My penis is 5 inches long(below average) and 5.5 inches in cicumference(above average). Must be OK since DW cums at least once every time we have IC. She had larger penisies before we were married, but she still likes my penis size. Before I was married I had IC with 10 different women and all of them had orgasms. One particular one that I remember before marriage was that this girl and I were making out in her apartment when we got real hot and started undressing each other. When she saw my hard 5 inch penis she said "Is that all thet you have?" I said "Yes, that's it." We proceeded to have IC and she had 2 orgasms. Afterwards she said "That is the best I ever had and those were my first orgasms."
In short don't worry about the size of your penis just use it and enjoy it.

Gentlemen:whatever size you are - as long as it gets from you to me - that's perfect, thank you!

Next topic!

[QUOTE=oldkinky;192812]... she said "Is that all thet you have?" I said "Yes, that's it."[/QUOTE]
Hmm. What was she expecting: "I've got another one in my car - if you want I can get it"?

Its not what you have, but how you use it that's important.

Nize - I like that one!

your size is just fine and falls average according to most studies so just enjoy your current girl and leave the other to big....jerks

this hole subject got of course cuz of bad spelling...... i made this post to see what everyone thought about my size even though it is consider average. which i kinda find hard to beleive cuz i figured 6 1/2 to 7 was probably more average.. just cuz i am somewhat short (5'6" maybe 5'7") so i figured my size would be kinda short. plus i personally think my girth is kinda on the skinny side but maybe not.......but to kinda clear everything up i have no problem pleasing i just wondered about my size and what people thought.

There are many threads on size, Brandye nearly cried at the last one which was put up...NO MORE SIZE STUFF--read the other posts on it and the Moderators recent opinion---NO MORE SIZE CHAT.

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