you've already had several boyfriends ? then whats different this time ask yourself.

I think this is what they invented gin for (or vodka, or wine, or whatever your preference is).

[QUOTE=blondebat24;155374]I'm not a virgin and I've been in several sexual relationships but I just can't get down to it with my new boyfriend...everytime we try I just tense up and freeze. I end up asking him to stop, he is really supportive and is not putting any pressure on me but I am feeling guilty that I cant pleasure him because I am so nervous.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Is it normal to feel this apprehensive about having sex with someone new for the first time?[/QUOTE]

If you can't figure out what's wrong in this case, then please seek some counseling.

na in moderation yess but not to the exstent you are no longer in control thats not a good idea especially for someone that has had experience, if now there is a problem it needs sorting

maybe you just aren't ready wth him. or maybe there is something missing. there are a lot of areas that be covered in why it isn't happening.

Surely a girl can just go along with it anyway, its not like they have to maintian a boner.
Just lube up & let him ride, see if you like it then when you actually do it.

What is going on here? The response you are showing is a fear response. Why are you fearing an attack? I strongly encourage you to seek counseling as this is not a normal response to sexual invitations. Have you been attacked or abused? Does he resemble an abuser? Something is seriously wrong - please get help immediately!