This may seem like a strange issue, but it's happening. I am 17 years old, and am still pretty new to sex. I have messed around with a couple of guys before, to the point of them and myself cumming, but no full sex yet.
I am with a new guy that I have been seeing for a while now, and I kind of have a problem. We have started messing around, and he has wanted me to give him oral. I did, as I have with past BFs, but I was very shocked and almost threw up when he orgasmed. He released way more cum than any other guy I have known, or even seen in porn. Easily about 100x more. We measured it once and it was almost a third of a cup :eek: :eek: Most guys I have seen usually go about a spoon-full.
I find this very hard to handle during oral. I usually gag and my mouth fills up when he has an orgasm, and it is generally not the nicest of things :( It shoots out with a lot of force (and a lot of it!) and it hits me right in the back of the throat. I have taken now to taking it out of my mouth, and finishing him by hand when he gets close, but he does not like this.
So, I guess I have three questions. What can I do about the oral? I don't want to make him feel bad, and make him feel like he is going to make me drown, but sometimes thats the way I feel. Also, and this may be a stupid question, but will it hurt if he has sex with me, and cums that much? He is fairly large and if a condom was to fill up that much, I don't know how that would feel. And last, could this be a sign of some kind of medical condition? It's nothing I have ever seen, or even heard of, but I would want to tell him if it could be a sign. Thank you so much, and sorry for the long post! :)
lol my boyfriend shoots alot more than i've seen any other guy shoot...also it has a very watery consistancy compared to most guys...lol :confused:
i generally dont swallow, and if i let him cum in my mouth i only put the head of the penis in my mouth and hold the shaft in my hand(s). usually though i only give him oral to get him worked up before having intercourse. we don't use condoms anymore and his orgasm has never caused any pain during vaginal sex. :)
[QUOTE]It shoots out with a lot of force (and a lot of it!) and it hits me right in the back of the throat. I have taken now to taking it out of my mouth, and finishing him by hand when he gets close, but he does not like this.
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Who cares what he doesn't like?? It's obvious you have made an effort to work w/ this...but are having to make "adjustments" to your technique so that you aren't gagging and vomiting.
He should be glad that you are willing to swallow...if you read a lot of the debates on here... some girls (like myself) just don't do it.
At least you tried :) lol
He cums a third of a cup?!?!? WOW...I can't even imagine what that feels like. How long does it take him from the beginning of his orgasm to the end? I don't think that I could physically handle that...I'll bet I'd have a heart attack, LOL. Have you tried giving him a hand job to get him off, then give him a second orgasm? I would think that there wouldn't be as much the second go around. At least I know there isn't quiet as much the second time I cum.
1/3 C. In your dreams and vivid imagination.
[QUOTE=demonbuttercup;186998]Who cares what he doesn't like?? It's obvious you have made an effort to work w/ this...but are having to make "adjustments" to your technique so that you aren't gagging and vomiting.
He should be glad that you are willing to swallow...if you read a lot of the debates on here... some girls (like myself) just don't do it.
At least you tried :) lol[/QUOTE]
Actually, the only time I tried to swallow was the first time. It's just not happening lol. I am just trying to do it to orgasm period :rolleyes: But I will take your advice! I have been trying, but it is just really hard to do it at all without choking.
And Doc, maybe it was not a full 3rd of a cup, but at least a 1/4. A tablespoon is on the upper-end of the scale of what a normal guy will give, so a quarter is only about 4x that much, if I remember my conversions right. Trust me, I have looked into this some before asking here. I even saw a guy in a porn online who probably did almost as much, if not as much, but since you are just watching that, it's hard to tell. If you don't want to believe me, thats fine, but you would have to think in the whole world, it's possible that one person at least would be capable of that. And I found him...
Let me say this once : PORN IS FAKE, FAKE, FAKE. You may safely disbelieve whatever you see in pornography.
And you measure output by having him masturbate into one of those small clear glass measuring pitchers that measure half cup and less. But please, 1/4 or 1/3, makes little difference, nope! Not happening. 2 Tablespoons at most or 7 cc.s
BTW we have far more experience than you ever imagined so please, save the aggro "it's possible that one person at least would be capable of that. And I found him..." for others.
There is no place in the male genito-urinary tract to store that much semen. Cannot be.
The force is likely your real problem. Place a thumb on the base of the penis and you will be able to feel the semen coming through the urethra. At that moment, press the back of your tongue against your hard palate. This forms a barrier that protects the gag reflex.
Never take the first ejaculation of the session by mouth. Subsequent orgasms produce less semen, with less force and often taste less bad.
i tell you what. if a guy could produce that much semen his testicles must be as big as a bulls! it is not possible to produce 1/3 or even 1/4 of a cup... not happening...unless he is the only one in this entire universe that can do so in which i doubt..
as brandye has pointed out it probaby just felt like a lot due to the force at which it was pushed into your mouth..
also please have some courtesy. the people here are trying to help you and give you advice but if you are just going to be rude then why should we bother?
I remember one of my days off I was playing around with my gf and we dragged it out for hours, and when I did ejaculate, there was a larger than normal volume. Forgive me if this seems ignorant, but it seemed very "watered down"... if it was 1/4 cup, don't think so, but it was a large volume.
1. Semen is NOT made in the testes; that is where the sperm are made. Semen is made in the vesicles and prostate. They get mixed on their way out.
2. The typical ejaculation is just under a level tablespoonful. Sometimes a little more and often a little less. I must admit that it may seem like a gallon draining back out.
VPER: The very long session of stimulation allowed the semen to begin to liquify, so you were ejaculating a mixture of the usual glob and already watery semen. It does not expand while liquifying but you were producing while it was trying to get released.