Ok, so here is my issue: I have been with a couple guys who really could care less about what I get. It has been all about them. I honestly don't think I have had an all out orgasm. Now, I'm with this new guy, and ,well, he definitly cares about my pleasure. The problem is, I can only take so much. It feels great. I'm not complaining. But I have to stop him after so long. I never have that "burst" of pleasure as I have been told an actual orgasm feels like. I don't know. I mean everything feels great, hes not complaining, he just wants to help me finish up and stuff. I get wet, but I never actually "come". I don't know...I feel like he feels that he's not doing something right, but he definitly is. I mean, will I be able to build up what I can tolerate? Its just waaaay to powerful to me right now.
Mon, 04/16/2007 - 04:05
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Too much to handle
There are many recent posts and sticky threads on this site on the exact topic. Do a search & read them, also show him what works for you and have him repeat the same.
well I see there are a lot about not having orgasms. That's not what I'm looking for. I'm looking for some help in being able to receive pleasure for a longer amount of time. I can't find anything on that topic. What he's doing works wonderfully I just want to learn a way to be able to withstand the pleasure for a longer amount of time. It's not neccisarily about having the orgasm itself. It still feels great but it just becomes to pleasureful, almost painful.
well first off you should figure out how to do this to yourself.
Get creative and find a sexy *solo* way of doing this for yourself.
you gotta know the material your teaching ;)
Right!!
You should be able to give yourself an orgasm so that you know exactly what to be on the lookout for.
:)
And what madeye and demon have said is said over and over and over .......
If you do not know where you are going, you are likely to end up somewhere else.