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Too many erections

Hi.

yes i am still young and also a virgin (age 16) but i have problems with my penis and was wondering if anyone could help. I get erects too fast and too often. I only have to think about sex to have an erection. This problem has been happening since i was a kid. Also, i dont masturbate like normally (rubbing your hands over your penis) because it doesn't seem to work. I rub my penis on objects like my bed and such. Will this change how i have sex? Like will i still be able to get orgasms?

Thanks you very much

[QUOTE=Quote (mike @ Jan. 02 2004,19:27)]Welcome to the age of raging hormones.  Only way you're gonna stop it is to chop it off.  (for God's sake don't take that seriously)  It will calm down as you get older.

Masturbating against the bed isn't that uncommon.  I've heard that it can lead to loss of sensitivity eventually, but don't know of any real studies or anything that say for sure.[/QUOTE]
Thats probly true, just like I read earlier if a girl uses vibrators on her clit it desensitizes...so Id watch out and try maybe using lube? use spit if you have to its better than water...most guys can do it try though, just pulling the skin up and down kinda fast...try dif ways.

I know they make flavored lotions, but I'm not sure about a flavored desensitizing cream. For something like that you may have to resort to mail order or a local adult shop.

[QUOTE=Quote ] I tried it with the foreskin on but its not sensitive enough, and without the foreskin, it hurts. [/QUOTE]

Have you tried masturbating rolling the foreskin back & forth over the head?

Hi..u and i are very much alike (or should i say, i was like you when i was younger except i am not uncut).

Ok, the fact that you get erections at the drop of a hat is 100% normal. It's a bit akward depending on the situation, but trust me, getting hard 30+ times a day fora 16 year old is pretty normal.

Now, i too used to "dry hump" my bed as a form of masturbation. A neighbor showed me how he masturbated, and i eventually moved over to the "jerking off" style as opposed to the dry humping. Actually, it took alot longer for me to cum using the dry-hump, and it was a very intense orgasm...so even now at 40, i have come back to it a few times a month.

It's also not uncommon for a man with an uncut penis to masturbate with the hood of skin over his penis head.....and when you say it's too sensative, do you mean that if you pull back the skin, you cum? If so, that will change over time and frequency of masturbation. If it's just driving you crazy....enjoy it...work past it.....you should be exploreing your penis while u are a virgin, to get to know it as much as possible!

You can also try handcream!

Try a desensitizing cream. They even sell it in supermarkets now. Look where they have the condoms and such.

look mate, u have no problem, u have one raging sexual libido...take advantage of it

Ok, thats alot guys and gals, this helps alot.

Unfortunately, i also have another problem. I have a very sensitive penis, and i mean VERY. Doctor says use vasaline and it should work but its been like a month. Because it is so sensitive, i have 2 mastaurbate with my foreskin up (btw, its been like this for MANY years, since i was 10).

Thanks alot

I don't know how to tell you this but you are........normal!(gasp)lol

Seriously, all guys have these "problems".  And as far as masturbation goes, as long as you aren't sticking it somewhere it can be injured or stuck(like the vacuum cleaner-don't laugh, I know people who have), go for it.

Welcome to the age of raging hormones.  Only way you're gonna stop it is to chop it off.  (for God's sake don't take that seriously)  It will calm down as you get older.

Masturbating against the bed isn't that uncommon.  I've heard that it can lead to loss of sensitivity eventually, but don't know of any real studies or anything that say for sure.

well i'm not a guy, but i don't see what's happening to you being out of the ordinary.
sometimes all i have to do is think about it and i get turned on. sometimes nothing could turn me on. it just depends on my hormones.

and some people just get off different than others. from a female perspective, some of us finger ourselves. some of us rub ourselves. some of us use vibrators or sex toys or even sit on a dryer. some of us will rub up against the corner of a desk if we think no one is watching.
so to me, you rubbing up against a bed or whatever doesn't seem odd.

and no, it won't change how you have sex.

Ya, thanks alot

But my penis, when i pull back the foreskin and rub the head of my penis, its so sensitive it feels really uconfortable (even hurts). I would "jerk off" but i have tried. I tried it with the foreskin on but its not sensitive enough, and without the foreskin, it hurts. Desensitizing cream? Ya, i should try that:D but, oral sex, i dont believe a gurl would like the taste of that.

Thanks soooo much
Andy

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