alright, i will admit im not new to sex, but i dont know were to put this, and it concerns me greatly, one of my previous lovers has told me he could never fully reach orgasim with me because he said i was too loose, and i worry becaue he was bigger than my current lover, so how much worse will that make it for my current lover? getting down to it, i have no idea how to do kegals and was told thats what to do to tighten up, i just want to make sure that he will recive the best pleasure from me, i have also giving birth before, would that affect it? gah! seriously worried here...
Mon, 10/11/2010 - 03:46
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too loose?
A woman's vagina enlarges in circumference when she becomes very highly aroused.** This very often gives the impression of being loose because the walls do not grasp the wall of the penis.
Try different positions.
> i have no idea how to do kegals
Kegel exercises are easy to do and can be done sitting, standing, walking or running. They should be repeated a few at a time over time.
What you do is to clamp down on the muscle used to stop the flow of urine. Pretend to stop the flow and hold the pressure for several seconds at a time.
** There are different benefits for men and for women. I suggest using the search engine on this site and also do an internet search for more information.
Dear Roywyn,
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual-health-women/28956-ever-tried-yon... It may be something for you :)
And see for more tips: http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/sexual-health-women/28983-do-your-kegels...
Also find and read the sticky post The Four Hotspots.
It isn't about "being loose".
Any man who cannot feel pleasure in there has a problem. We all ballon and elongate and get our feeling mostly from around our entrance. The muscles there are mostly what a man feels plus the glans rubbing against the side of our vaginas.
Some partners just match up better than others. Depends on his angles and your tigh spots and the positions you use. Simply lowering your knees a few inches could make a large difference. Evil is correct: it is not being about tightness or looseness.
Angles matter a lot i have found for how much stimulation I receive as well as how much she receives. I have read giving birth can cause the vagina to become looser while having a lot of sex cannot. Kegals do help you and your man both to receive more stimulation during sex.. also kegals with help you hold your urine flow when you are older. Google and youtube kegals and you'll find plentiful amounts of info on kegals.
One of the well known vaginal exercises that can help tighten your vaginal muscles is the Kegel exercise. You will have to do this when you urinate. When you pee, simply stop your pee in midstream by controlling your pelvic muscles. Try to aim for a four second pause then continue peeing. Try to do this a few times every time you urinate.
i know this is a little off topic but i am a man and im in the avg size range (5 inch) in length but i dont have much girth, and a girl i have been seeing has had a couple of kids and when having sex i know i found it hard to reach orgasm because it was almost like i couldnt feel being inside her. are their any position to help with this??? plz let me know
Try this (assuming you are each relatively fit): After she takes you in, lift your weight off her legs and have her close them. This squeezes a bit with some additional benefits. It causes your movements to rub her where it is best and it places the thickest part of your penis in the narrowest part of her vagina.
You can also try having her lay on her back with her legs together, knees pulled to her chest, and pillow underneath her pelvis.