Hi Everyone,
I am having trouble getting my girl to reach orgasm during intercourse. I have read lots and lots of articles and forums about making women orgasm and they all suggest that the best way is through direct clitoral stimulation, like fingering and oral sex. I have no problem with that - I can make my girl cum in 5 minutes without fail with my tongue and fingers - but I want to make her orgasm through penetration.
When we're having intercourse, most of the time I cum pretty quickly which is a good reason why my girl wouldn't reach orgasm. But on those occasions when I do last a bit longer, after 15 minutes or so she says she isn't wet enough anymore! And don't get me wrong, during those 15 minutes we're both sweating and she's making noises that suggest she is having a great time! So would anyone have any advice as to how I can keep her wet for long enough to make her cum? Girls, do you know why does she goes 'dry' like that? I know intercourse doesn't turn girls on as much as it turns guys on, but what can I do to keep her turned on during penetration??
Most of the articles I read said that not many women can reach that elusive 'vaginal' orgasm but my girlfriend has two girlfriends who have regular 'amazing, intense, blackout' orgasms through intercourse with their boyfriends! I'm not going to lie -- we're pretty jealous!!
So if anyone can tell me how I can keep my girlfriend wet for 20-30 minutes during intercourse, or why she goes 'dry' on me after 15 minutes, I would really appreciate it!
Thanks
PS. Girls, if you have had an orgasm through intercourse only, how long did it take for that to happen since the first time you had sex?
They make this stuff...they sell them at sex shops, pharmacies and even grocery stores...
Its called lubricant :p
And if you know some women can't reach vaginal orgasm then why don't you used your fingers to play with her clit? Having your penis in her doesn't mean "don't touch anywhere near there". Hell if I could get flexible enough I would even use my tongue while having sex. (But sadly I am not haha)
I was about to ask what the big deal is about getting her to orgasm by penetration only, a bunch of women can't. But then I realized, that's the big deal with it. The more illusive a phenomenon is, the more people want to be the ones that can do it.
Finger her clit at the same time. Or, "push" one of her other "buttons" at the same time. By this I mean: is there something you can do, such as play with a nipple or something, that may as well be connected to her genitals by a string? Do that while you penetrate.
OMG - haven't you searched the forum for this topic yet?
The Four Hotspots tells you how to do this and it isn't difficult.
Look it up.
You feel more enjoy that position is best,