Ok guys. how bout some help here. Ive been in a relationship for near 13 yrs now and since turning 30 a few months ago my sex drive has shot through the roof. ( hes 34 ) Im talken gone from having sex 2 - 3 times a week to literaly needing it everyday. I've read a couple people say after 3 - 4 days of not having any thats all u can think about .......well that sums it up to a tee fer me. Only Im near crazy after the 2nd. My problem is how can I get him more interested. I seem to get less loven now than befor. I told him if he cant keep up that maybe I sould go c the doc to slow it down but he doesnt want that. plz help.
Mon, 05/29/2006 - 12:29
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too horny to think straight
It's a simple matter of you've just hit your prime and he's way past it. (Although I really think that depends on the person sometimes cause I'm not at my prime yet and he's way past it and we'd probably do it everyday if we could. lol.)
My only suggestion is to perhaps try some new moves you haven't done before. After being in a relationship for so long, it's hard to keep things going because you've "done everything". So just try some new moves or spice some up some of the same things you've been doing. See if that perks his interest any.
> It's a simple matter of you've just hit your prime and he's way past it.
This is true, although your conclusion is incorrect.
While it is true that men reach their prime about age nineteen and women in their early thirties, what is wrong with your inference is that the couple is pretty much evenly matched at this time of life. The male decline is a very very shallow curve so while he may be a decade past his peak, functionality-wise he is not that far down the curve and this is why the thirties and early fourties can be so great for the couple.
I really can't help you with how to get him interested (I'm
having the same problem). But to tone down the cravings
a good vibrator always works. It wont eliminate the problem
but it'll keep you from going crazy.