Move it any way that feels right, as long as she likes it.

When I kiss her I usally tease her with the tip of my tounge, then when we get more into it, we kind of... push them against each other, kind of massaging them. Hard to explain I guess..

Work your way up to serious tonguing. The same touches have completely different reactions depending on arousal.

Kiss her everywhere lightly, but not tickling. When her eyes are closed or if you're somewhere she can't see you, change your rhythm by being predictable at first, then as she starts to get flushed and anticipate the next kiss, hold off a couple seconds with your mouth hovering above her where she can feel your warm breath. When that kiss gets a good reaction, most tongue movements will probably feel good as well.

As long as you've progressed into things, start experimenting with your tongue and seeing which things bring good reactions and which don't. Make the movements progressively larger and pay very close attention to how her body reacts. Is she moaning, flushed, involuntarily twitching, shaking, arching her back, ... etc? If anything you do does something like that, keep doing it. Oh, and you can always just ask her.

Do not put your tongue into your partners mouth like you want to lick theirs. Don't laugh it's done, and wrong. It's almost like putting a hickey (sp) on their neck (without the sucking), in fact you can go from mouth to neck to nipple with just about the same technique. Make sure your tongue is relaxed, it's not your penis, you want your tongue soft. Also make sure that your lips and theirs are in full contact, don't be surprised when their tongue enters your mouth. Back in the day it was called tonsil hockey, that doesn't mean you stick your tongue down their neck, it was just name.
ps don't ask, but remember a few ideas for next time and before you know it you'll be the kisser she/he wants you to be.

Bravo that was informative...........

Thanks constantly, it's just so much easier to do it. How a man got to be 58 and not learned the skills amazed me. But I never called him on it, at 60 he's pretty good. I do have to admit the first few months were hard even to think about him kissing me, now it's what I want.

At least you did some quality "teaching"............LOL
You keep up the good work young lady.

This is just too funny not to share. On Wednesday I had decided that after the last two times we were together and he didn't climax, he was. I was a girl on a mission and YES! Anyways when I got to his house I had a piece of gum in my mouth so when I went to give him a kiss he kinda freaked. After making sure I wasn't sharing, he gave me a peck and a hug, I was laughing, he is such a dork. So before opening mouth and inserting tongue, remove gum.
I wanted to have fresh breath after talkin all day.
#2 just start, you don't want a dry mouth but you don't want it Niagara Falls either.
And Constantly isn't it great we have so much to keep learning.

It really is important to constantly learn. Fresh breath and wonderful hygiene are
VERY VERY Important. Why some don't subscribe to this I will never know or
understand. Actually gross to me but that is an entirely different story all together.
Floss, brush, rinse, laser brighten these are easy things to accomplish. If for no
other reason than your partners sake. LOL

Hey Langston you want your tongue relaxed. Your tongue is probably going to FEEL everything in her mouth. She moves yours and you move hers, relaxed. Use your tongue like you would if you were kissing her nipple, same pressure as her neck (don't lick). If this is fore-play or during love-making, then don't forget all the areas, mouth, neck. nipple not only with your mouth but with your hands.