Okay. My gf and I have been dating for 6 months...
And tomorrow... shes coming over.... and I want to make her come.
I wont be happy unless I make her come.
Cause shes never before.
So does anyone have any tips or techniques I can do to make her come.
I have to make her come!!!!
lol so please respond. Thanks!
tell her to tell you weather she really like something when you try out a different technique with maybe oral ect tell her to give you tips on different things she could try
YOU cannot force it to occur; here is a good place for her to read & you:
http://www.sexinfo101.com/forum/new_sex/19803-for_women_only-_help_why_c...
Here is a new link to the INDEX:
--BEGIN HERE--w/a Partial INDEX of Sex Info 101 Sex Ed. Topics
[quote]And tomorrow... shes coming over.... and I want to make her come.
I wont be happy unless I make her come.
Cause shes never before.
So does anyone have any tips or techniques [/quote]
You have much to learn about making out and making love and the male and female physiology.
We cannot make someone else achieve a climax. Each one of us, male and female, is responsible for our own orgasms. All any of us can hope to accomplish it to help our partner achieve his/her own.
Your happiness about making her cum is honorable, yet misplaced. You should be happy pleasuring each other and demonstrating your love through your activities. As nice as an orgasm is, it is not the be all end all to making love, particularly for the female of the species.
The Anatomy of the Female "O", Answered by Brandye & Dancingdoc2 & Inspired by Godiva
The next bit of knowledge you are lacking is that most girls learn to masturbate much later in life than a boy, if at all. Until she learns on her own what you have already know how to do, she will likely not be able to climax, now. This should not disappoint you as explained in the above article.
Here is some required reading for the two of you:
KISSING & CARESSING--a young person's guide to EXPLORATION
INTERCOURSE / ORGASMS/ and the gentle art of Making Out, FIRST
This is Chapter Three in a series. Just scroll down to this section.
How Do I Get Him/Her to Orgasm From a Hand/Blow Job?
After reading and assimilating this information, then go through the INDEX for more. I hope this is of help and also some comfort to you.
Not a good idea to try and force her. Neither you or her want to feel that pressure. Oral and manual clitoral stimulation may help. But remember these things don't happen over night. Does she feel close to you? I find it hard to cum when I don't feel close enough to my hubby. Its emotional for me.
Right.. don't have such expectations...then both parties will end up "thinking" about it TOO hard and it won't happen... or at least it'll take forever to happen. Can she make herself orgasm?? Does she know any of this is going to happen?? LOL might want to check w/ her first!!
Plus, if it doesn't happen then you'll both feel like sh*t... you'll feel you suck and she'll feel she let you down. Like K said, pressure is a buzz kill... it'll just ruin the fun.