Are there any adult motels around your area or nearby area? These have videos and the two I know about, here, have heart-shaped tubs! and mirrors on the ceiling over a water bed.

Yes or no, why not blindfold him and take him on a mystery ride to just a regular m/hotel? Take him on a circuitous route so he is thoroughly disoriented--and, to extend the length of the ride. Just going to a new and different room is often sufficient to whet one's appetite. You do not have to spend money on fancy accommodations, a budge motel is just fine.

Use your imagination. Browse the illustrated animated sexual positions section on the site's Home Page for ideas. Dream up a scenario for some role playing and take charge, having your way with him. Pack a can of whipped cream!

The exercises can make a difference; certainly for you. As for him, much depends upon the position and how close he is to a climax when you apply the pressure.

practice
practice with alchohol if you feel it would help (id reccomend you don't. you wanna be 100% sober for this it seems)
Go out and get some lingerie he hasnt seen you in yet (unless you have some that he hasnt seen already)
like doc said, try a new place.
and remember that teasing him will get you a long way.

and if you havent done so yet, try dirty talking.
this site has two articles on it. Hell, just whispering his name in his ear might drive him wild!

Please stop - look up at the sticky posts just up there and read the one entitled The Program. Seriously, you don't need anything more than you, him, and an attitude of no holds barred and "take this like a man". You might also want to read the sticky post on Body Worship. I use these in my arsenal and have yet to meet a man that didn't immediately fall to his knees and beg for more.

A devilish woman's focused attention is something few men have experienced or can resist.

[QUOTE=epicsexy;266868][COLOR="blue"> Also I know stripping is probably not the same as the dancing you do, but I'm a horrible dancer.[/COLOR]

Well...there is what we do in public and what we do in the privacy of our home. :D

Salsa, Samba, Swing, Cha-Cha, etc., are all Ballroom dances that couples do, whereas Stripping is an erotic solo dance performed by most of us in private and for one specific individual. (Of course there are clubs where this is done, but I'm not talking about that.)

Nobody is very good at dancing in the beginning. Why do you think dance studios and classes available through community Recreation and Parks Departments thrive?

Dancing 101--About school dances, proms, etc. Learning to Slow Dance

[COLOR="blue">My body just seem kinda stiff, big and awkward. I'm not fat but I'm 5'11" and weigh 140lbs I think that about average,[/COLOR]

I agree.

I've taught tall strapping athletes to dance. I've taught short dumpy men to dance. In general, women are innately more fluid with their movements than men; however, there are always a few men and women who are awkward and seem to have no natural "rhythm". For most people, acquiring fluid motion can be taught.
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I've always been kinda shy and I feel so tall my body just doesn't feel right.[/COLOR]

Self confidence is an acquired skill, mostly accomplished by enjoying small successes in the activities that we undertake. The more things you attempt, have success with (now or shortly with practice), the more a person's self confidence grows. Being a confident person, on the other hand is a state of mind. A person can exude confidence even though s/he has not learned a particular skill. "I can do this...." Tell yourself this when you want to learn something new and then set about learning how. Do not fear failure. Failure is part of learning. "If first you don't succeed, try, try, again."

[COLOR="blue">Do you have any suggestions to help me become more comfortable with my body? Do you think streching will help? Or try dancing in front of a mirror for practice? [/COLOR]

First and foremost, you have to like you and who and what you are as a person; second, I do believe that stretching is a great way to develop soft fluid movements. Rather than stretching where you bend over and touch your toes, or, extend your arms to the side and bend over to the left/right as you would with an exercise regiment, I suggest doing movements that will bring out the softness in your range of motion. Begin by stretching your left ribcage, and then the right, thus tilting your upper torso. Do this slowly and without being abrupt or choppy in your movements.

GOOGLE "how to develop poise" and learn about developing proper posture.

[COLOR="blue">I'm not really sure why I feel this way I know I'm beautiful.. my friends suggested I take a couple shots of vodka or taqueila before dance but then things might get a lil sloppy lol.[/COLOR][/QUOTE]

Liquor and dancing do not mix. While C&W dancers may drink and dance, and, people just out dancing while at some public/private event, Ballroom dancers as a general rule never do--at least while dancing. (Besides, who wants to smell liquor on your breath (or smoke in your hair and on your clothing?)

You probably feel the way you do about yourself because of the phase of life you are in. Young people often feel unsure of themselves, or more to the point, find one or more aspects of their anatomy that they are unhappy with and then become fixated on this. If something needs fixing and it is possible within reason to do so, then implement a program for change, otherwise, accept you for the beautiful person you are, imperfections and all.

At 5'11" and 140 lbs - you are, if anything, UNDER weight. We're talking fashion-model slim here. Revel in it! Show some leg! Stand up straight and wear 3" high heels!! REJOICE!!

Think of yourself as a Siamese cat - long, lithe, lean and definitely predatory with that delicious male mouse being your natural prey. Yummy!

A touch of evil does a woman a great deal of good.

BTW - alcohol is a NO. I, myself only drink Diet Coca-Cola when preying upon males. You don't want to dull your edge.