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ok, i have a question!
when me and my boyf have sex, and ive orgasmed. I get tired really quickly, but i feel bad, caus usually i cum before he does. It still feels good in me, but my thighs hurt and eventually i get a little dry. It still feels good, wierd huh?
So yeah, what do i do?
i dont wanna just stop after i get off, thats kinda selfish, so i guess i should just "ride" it out and pretend im not gettting tired!
oh and another question. My guy used to be able to have sex about 4-5 times a day. now we are only doing it twice. i need more..how do i fix this without making it seem like its his fault??
No it does not seem odd, just get some lube out and keep going. Or wait longer to orgasm. Keep going and try for multiple orgasms.
Four to five times a day? I can understand him slowing down to two. Maybe try to make the two into nice long sessions, have multiple orgasms that should fix you. BTW, do you have time to do anything else all day?
[QUOTE=sera300;175771]BTW, do you have time to do anything else all day?[/QUOTE]
LOL no doubt! Maybe its like my Soaps...where no one ever has to work :p
when my b/f FIRST started having sex it was a few times a day...then once a day....then maybe every other day....then once a week....and so on LOL
We have like opposite sex drives it seems =\ his is pretty high...but I don't even think he'd want it 4-5 times a day...maybe once a day!
The newness wears off plus that is "active"...there are some paces that just can't be kept up w/ over a long period of time.
Plus like Sera said....who has the time? LOL
Like w/ anything else...if you do it too much...you do get burned out!
Plus you also kind of have to reevaluate the relationship... are you just f*ck buddies? or do you guys talk and do other stuff?? Might be good that it's not ALL about sex...but if that's what you are wanting.....?!?!
agreed - 4/5 times a day doesn't leave time for much else!!!
and keep some lube handy so you don't dry out.
maybe slow down for a bit for you to get your breath back and carry on :)
"Servicing" works two ways.
If one person does not feel up to full blown sex, then just kiss, cuddle, and fondle and attend to the other's needs. This can often be accomplished without the a lot of sexual exertion on the part of the partner not ready for another climax just yet yet willing to see to the partner's needs.
I agree, have lubrication handy and use a lot of it when necessary.
Please clarify what you mean by being tired.
Are you physically exhausted?
Are you experiencing muscle fatigue?
In the first case, after an orgasm, just kick back and relax for a few minutes languishing in the afterglow and giving your body time to recoup. The two of you can keep the fires burning by continuing to kiss, caress, and, fondle between orgasms.
In the second case, try switching positions so that your muscles can relax.
I think it is great that you are achiving an orgasm, first; however, if he is taking too long to reach his, consider that the two of you are beginning intercourse before you should. The time is right when he (and perhaps you) is on the raw edge of an orgasm yet can still maintain control and not loose it when getting into position, or stopping oral, or whatever. If he is doing lots and Lots and LOTS and LOTS of stroking in an attempt to reach his peak then you are going about things all backwards.
Whether this is the case or not, you can always give him a bit of a hand job in between his stroking.
what do u mean stroking??
WHEN would he do this?????
I think he means if your b/f is having to pound away for a LONG time... or you are having to ride him for a LONG time... that maybe he should be more aroused and closer to orgasm before he enters...that way you guys might be able to cum closer in sync.