Greetings,
Recently, my wife and I have been playing with a rather large dildo. It takes a while to get in, but once there, WOW. Anyway, I was wondering if anyone has any tips or advice on large dildo play. I really, really enjoy seeing this toy in her. The toy is about 2.5" diameter, and about a foot long. No way the length will all go in, and I like the length so it gives me a better way to hold onto the toy. If anyone knows any good positions or other ideas, please reply.
Thu, 12/22/2005 - 17:08
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Tips on using LARGE didlos on my wife
Sexual positioning doesn't matter.
You should be very concerned about stretching the anus and possibly damaging it so it won't shut. There is no reason to insert something all the way up to the first bend. All the important and sensitive nerve endings are at the anus and along the passageway where the two sphincter muscles are. Your time and attention should be directed there within the first two inches.
If the diameter is not a problem, only the insertion, then there are a couple of things you can try.
* first, make sure both she and the dildo are very well lubricated
* second, encourage her to relax the sphincters, particularly if her natural tendency is to clamp down. This takes conscious effort.
* third, as an alternative to the above, she can try bearing down as if trying to pass stool when you are using pressure to insert the dildo
I hope this is of help.
OK, you enjoy seeing it in her. Any feedback on how she likes it in there? Seems to me that that is the more important element.
While it is not likely that you will do any permanent damage, frequent stretching to a much greater than normal size will eventually have effects.