lets see. get some handcuffs and cuff him to the bed and dont be afraid to be aggresive but be sure to have a safe word

BDSM... 4 simple little letters. Look it up :)

What about "arresting" him in a public place, putting him in the back of your "unmarked" police car and whisking him off for his "punishment'!! make sure to amn handle him a little on route to the car....even better, frisk him in this "public" place, with a bit of a touch and feel at this point he will be a

Make a stop at a motel (checked in before hand so that the scene is set) and take him into the room for some "interrogation", feel free at tbis point to cuff him and use any "interrogation tools" (toys for you or him) to get him to talk.

Just beware of getting bust for impersonating a police officer!!

> feel free at tbis point to cuff him and use any "interrogation tools" (toys for you or him) to get him to talk.

After being handcuffed, a feather does wonders for getting a person to talk--and squirm.

Be sure to "torture" him by building up his arousal just short of a climax and then pausing. Doing this a couple of times and he will probably confess to anything just to get an orgasm.

Yes, by all means, agree on a safe word that either of you can say whenever things have gone too far or gotten out of hand. It is mandatory that when a safe word is spoken all roll playing and every thing stops right then and there--immediately if not sooner. The word must be something that would not come up in normal conversation. "Stop", "don't do that", "no more", "quit", etc., are not safe words/phrases.

Have you guys talked about it at all? I personally am all about communication - I think when a couple can't talk about things like this, it's pretty sad. I think it's best to talk with him, see what he likes, etc.

Figure out what general type of roles you want - ie do you want to be dominant or submissive? You can start out small, like doing sexual things to him while he's handcuffed to the bed. Then you can build up to much naughtier, very fun things!