Hello all, me and my girlfriend have been dating for almost 7 months now and have sex about every weekend.. The problem is that I enjoy sex and I know she does too but she never orgasm's and i know this is normal for some but i would really like to make sex as enjoyable as absolutely possible for her, I don't care if it discomforts me! I just want her to start loving sex again! :)
Thanks!
What does it mean "I just want her to start loving sex again"????
I want her to really start to love having sex again, It seems that it is starting to wear off on her .... I want her to love it!
Meaning she has no interest??? Have you spoke to her about it? What does she say? Maybe it's just a lul???
no no no, she does have interest but I really want to make her love it... I mean she gets some pleasure but not much.. I just want to maximize the pleasure she is getting during sex
I don't think there is a clear answer here, so her pleasure has dwindled off? I really don't know what you do in bed together, but there are a great deal of posts here about g-spot stimulation, multiple orgasms, oral, anal, & sex games. Give them a try...prob. don't want to watch porno together after reading your last post. You really can't make someone into it, the best you can do it try something different. But if she is not receptive that's her problem, she needs to communicate to you what she likes, it's not your job to entertain her. I think if she is getting bored, you may have some other relationship issues which need to be discussed.
Change things up! Sometimes in relationships it can be easy to get into a 'monotonous' rut, and things seem to endlessly repeat themselves.
Try something spontaneous - sex somewhere unique, talk dirty, try something new and interesting. Make sure you avoid any 'routines'.
Ive discussed this with friends before, and often, women seem to lose interest because men sometimes get in a bad habit of 'repeating what works' or what they THINK works.
Just try and do something different, and exciting. Or, make it really romantic - candles, a nice dinner, some flowers. Enjoy yourselves, and show her you feel like worshiping her body.
I always wondered why the women that dont orgasm keep on having sex at all. Why would you do it if you cant cum & you have to keep all that frustration inside of you?