I've been active for over 15 years now, and believe me, this is ALWAYS an issue between us men: lasting as long as you can to ejaculate.
Somewhere in this board I ve read a comment that said that giving a hand job helps. I think a fellatio before penetration helps too. Maybe if we all share our tips, we can publish the ultimate lasting guide!
I think the best thing that we have done to help the last longer thing is we try new things all the time cuffs kama sutra powder things in that nature the thing is it is a mental thing if you think or pay more attention to how long you are going to last then yes you are going to blow your load a whole lot quicker. Calm yourself foreplay helps alot. Just stay calm and enjoy yourself. If you enjoy yourself and not pay attention to how long you are going to last and i think you will be okay respond back and keep me informed as to if it works my fiance will back me on all of this. LOL good luck