:confused: Can anyone help me out here? I have always been with guys who have been circumcised(cut). However, the guy I am with now and have deep feelings for, is NOT circumcised(uncut). I'm pretty good at giving head with cut guys, I am a little lost. I have ripped up the google lines searching for info to aid in my task of finding any tips/tricks/techniques for giving head to a guy who is uncut. I want to make it as pleasureable as I can for him. He hasn't complained about anything I've done, as I told him that I hadn't given head to uncut penis, in fact the only thing he said when I asked him was that I should 'reef' the skin back and go for it. (Yeah, thanks that helped a lot, I felt like saying) I've picked up things here and there. Like, pushing foreskin right back and treating it as you would an cut penis. and the skin that connects head to shaft (whatever they call it) is more sensitive to a guy who is uncut, wiggling, flicking, licking, swirling tongue around the base of their head and paying special attention to the skin bit connecting.
Has anyone got any other tips/tricks/techniques that they would like to share - I would be eternally grateful.
Wed, 01/24/2007 - 14:34
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Tips for giving head to uncircumcised guy-as I'm only given head to circumcised guys
All I would add to what you have said and what he has related is for you to understand two more things:
T#1- The Glans is vastly more sensitive than it would be if he was circumcised as an infant.
T#2- There are many sensitive nerve endings in the foreskin that you can have fun with in addition.
Because the nerves in the Glans of an uncircumsized male are protected from the elements they are much more reactive. This can have both positive and negative aspects. The positive aspect is that you can bring much more intensity to the pleasure he derives from your caresses. The negative aspect is that he may or may not be able to handle a lot of direct touching. It just depends upon the guy and the situation.
For those of us who have been circumcised, our pleasures are derived from the nerves in the shaft, the Glans, and, to a lesser extent, the nerves in the root structure within the abdomen. For those fortunate men who are intact, there is a third source of pleasure and that is the Foreskin.
To a great degree you have answered your own question about what else you can do to pleasure him. He's told you to keep on keeping on. So, continue what you are doing and ask for guidence from him for other things. Explore and learn together.
I posted a thread called 'Killer blowjob' - basically it seems us non-cut guys have a more sensitive glans as I found recently.
I haven't had millions of sexual encounters but this was the first time someone had actively gone for my glans with abandon and it was very strange the way I reacted.
I think you have to be more sensitive with it depending on the reaction you want to get - the lady in question clearly got a big kick out of seeing me lose it and make strange facial expressions!
We have had sex since and I asked her not to do that again because it was too intense. This time she just slowly massaged my helmet round and round and I'm telling you my body was shaking! I think she just loves seeing a man lose control even if it is bordering on too intense an experience for him.
Overall just be gentle - and watch to see if he's enjoying it and not suffering!