Ok to start with I'll just explain my current situation. I'm 20,my partner 18. We both still have our virginity. :)

Now as weve gotten closer and more recently after some raunchy texts, Ive noticed a 'naughty' spark in her.

I've already got a little of that spark but I have trouble voicing it as I'm one of those types who constantly worries about others... So I'm wondering if anyone could help out with tips on how to help us both relax a little more. We are both perfectly comfortable with each other, Its just that Id like to help my partner out of her shell so to speak and boost my confidence a little.