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> Basiclly, i'm going to a field.... tonight...

I gather you are taking a girl to a secluded place either to watch the sun set and/or view the stars and possible meteors. Nice!

I recommend taking along a blanket to lie upon as well as a couple of pillows for heads or elbows.

If you are going early enough and have not had dinner, why not stop by a KFC and pick up a nice chicken dinner for two?

> I'm quite a shy person and not very confident, i was just wondering has anybody got any tips to break the ice and more importantly, please her

How much fooling around and making out have you done with her? This is the key for what to do and how far to go? If you have not made out with this person, or not very much; or, not much at all with anybody, then limit what you do to kissing and cuddling.

Please read the articles listed in the Index that discuss kissing, making out, and especially "boundaries" and "implied consent". The information found in these articles will serve you well, now and in the future.

> Also, what the hell is a girth? apparently it's the thickness but somebody said there's is 6 inches+ so that would be 1 hell of a fat willy.

Don't you have a dictionary? There are one or two available on line.

"Girth" is the distance around, or, circumference, not the diameter.

> Thanks

You're welcome. I hope this is of help. Please do not hesitate to ask other questions, although, do read the articles, first.

Fast replys would be fantastic

As nice as your request is, you have to understand that this venue is member supported with people contributing from all over the world and in many different time zones most likely different from your own. People also go to school, work, sleep, and one or more may not have anything worthwhile to contribute, so please be patient.

Hang in there....
-doc

[QUOTE=TheShyOne;254522]Also, how would i pull the "hood" of her clit back? i've never heard of this. :S

Sorry for double post[/QUOTE]

This is not a double post, but a second post. No problem.

The male penis can be considered the equivalent of the female clitoris although exposed and on steroids! Yes, they are very very similar albeit with some distinct differences:
* first, the tip (glans in the male) is the only part of the structure that is exposed. The shaft is buried within the folds of the vulva

* second, unlike the penis, the urethra takes a separate path and is not part of the clitoris

* third, the nerves in the tip are the same as those in the glans; however, instead of being spread out over the larger surface area of the glans, they are tightly compacted in a part of the clitoris about the size of a pencil eraser! This means that they are vastly more sensitive and reactive.

* fourth, both become erect, although, very obvious in the male, this is usually only felt in a woman.

* fifth, if a man has a foreskin, it generally retracts as a reaction to an erection, or, must be retracted by hand in order to expose the glans. With women the tip pokes out from under the hood (foreskin), initially, yet after being stimulated for a while, usually pulls back like a turtle's head and hides. This action does not mean you cannot continue to pleasure her, only that what you do will become indirect and thru the hood or the labia.

I recommend that you learn more about the female anatomy by employing the internet's best tool: GOOGLE, or one of the other popular search engines and search for illustrated drawings of the human female anatomy--as well as yours, while you are at it. Knowledge is empowering.

You have asked some good questions.

-doc

> Basiclly, i'm going to a field.... tonight...

So, how was your "field trip"? What all transpired?

> I'm quite a shy person and not very confident, i was just wondering has anybody got any tips to break the ice and more importantly, please her

Being "a shy person" is fine and to be expected. We were all there, once, so do not be overly concerned. Confidence comes from two sources: first, being prepared and having acquired some knowledge; second, having done some practicing. Like learning to ride a bicycle or drive a car, or some other skill (like Ballroom dancing and flying an airplane, in my case), you cannot expect to have an inherited or innate ability from which you can perform skillfully. Everybody has to go thru a learning process. What makes the difference is in how each of us goes about this and in what frame of mind or attitude. In this situation, have fun, and be positive. It's not that you will make some goofs, it is all about how you pick yourself up, dust yourself off, and continue.

It is important to learn and then to understand that women view love, romance, and sex, much differently than do men. Boys can have pissing contests and post pubescent teens can gather to see who can "shoot" the greatest distance, the most often, with the quickest recovery. Girls on the other hand have a much different view and value system. So, if you expect to take a girl out behind the barn or to a field and "score" big time, think again!

Typically for boys your age, the idea and purpose of all this time and effort is to get your proverbial rocks off one way or the other. I challenge you to learn what it is about going out with you or other boys is important to her.

> has anybody got any tips to break the ice and more importantly, please her

Work on the emotional aspects of the relationship, first. Show her that you care for and value her as an individual, not as an object for your self indulgences.

Making out is accomplished in stages. I suggested that you limit what you do together to kissing and cuddling. For a new relationship in the beginning stage, this is fine. If you think you will get into her panties or her hands on your most valued "asset" this early then you have much to learn about the process and interacting with people in general. For more on all this, please do read the articles that discuss the how-to's of kissing, and making out, and beyond.

Was a fun time had by both?

Nice posts, i like it