Haha...I wasn't sure where to put this topic, but since this sub-forum is basically my goal (pleasing her), I figured I'd put it in here.
Does the time pressure make things harder for everyone else? I find it much harder to climax for myself, mostly because we don't have much time for foreplay. Any tricks to speed everything up?
Why is there no time for foreplay? It shouldn't be something that's rushed. There's no reason to rush it. I assume you're not rushing to have sex considering you mentioned nothing about sex in your post. Right?
i think he(?) is talking about quickies?
[QUOTE=Quote (Suggest Plume @ Feb. 22 2003,11:52)]Any tricks to speed everything up?[/QUOTE]
Ah - sure ...
While in a car going over a cliff.
On a roller-coaster.
When she murmers in your ear "Are Self-Destructo a good brand of condom?"
While she's screaming in your ear "I think I hear my Dad's car in the driveway."
Seriously dude, why the big rush? If you put that kind of pressure on yourself, you are bound to have problems! Find the time and the place to do it right. Quickies should be by choice, not by dictate.
well, it wouldn't be pressure if it weren't forced.
Yeah, one of those "I have to leave in 10 minutes" kind of things. I don't know, it just makes me lose potency quickly I guess.
you shouldnt be forced to have sex, type thing, if you're leaving in ten minutes dont have sex, its as simple as that, like someone else said earlier, wait for the time and place, if you have to rush, you're not going to enjoy it as much, seriously its not worth the ten minutes. Even if you have to make a date and time, its better then rushing it, do it right, and wait until you have time.