I have some questions.
1) A normal sex session is like 20-30mins for us, sometimes I we go for a couple of hours. Is this good? Whats the typical time for penatrive sex?
2) Normally I can go like twice a night, sometimes 3 or 4. Is this good? Whats typical again?
3) length=6", girth=4 & 3/4? Good? typical is?
4) I seem to have trouble making my girl orgasm; anywhere, fingering, oral, penatrative. She seems to really enjoy penatrative but she says her x made her orgasm and when I ask she says "no" or "no but it was close". Obv i want to make her go. any tips here? is this typical?
Thankx in advance
in the first three aspects you sound normal or better than normal (the fourth as well, but i just want to comment on that seperately) so with that you have absolutely nothing to worry about.
Regarding your fourth question, it's not abnormal to have trouble making the girl orgasm. It is usually easier to do it with oral or fingering, and for those techniques there are some good posts in the "Pleasing Her" thread that help. As for making her orgasm during penetration, that's a harder thing to do, and if it's not happening at all yet, there's no advice i can give you about how to make it happen. Hopefully someone will have some better luck helping you in that regard.
ok thats a releif, but 4 its not happening with anything. u say its easier with oral or fingering, but i csnt do it like that n e ways, so whats up? Ill take a look at the pleasing her bit thankx for your help.
> 1) A normal sex session is like 20-30mins for us,
"Normal"? Are you referring to intercourse and stroking for 20+ minutes, or, are do you mean the duration of your love making overall beginning with the first kiss? If the latter it sounds like the definition of a l o n g "Quickie".
> sometimes I we go for a couple of hours. Is this good?
If your definition means the entire love making process then a couple of hours is a good thing--actually anything longer than thirty minutes. It takes that long most of the time just to get her motor reved up.
> Whats the typical time for penatrive sex?
Many women have stated that after ten minutes of stroking and thrusting, they tend to become tired, bored, and sore. This question is asked at least once a week. My reply is that intercourse is not how you build each other's level of arousal and excitement, this is what all the kissing and caressing are for. Intercourse simply maintains and then peaks an already high state of readiness and then takes you to nirvana.
> 2) Normally I can go like twice a night, sometimes 3 or 4. Is this good?
It is as long as masturbation and couple sex do not interfere with daily tasks and obligations.
> Whats typical again?
"Typical" is a range between two extremes. What women state is imortant to them is the fact that they desire a penis that is sufficiently long enough to
3) length=6", girth=4 & 3/4? Good? typical is?
4) I seem to have trouble making my girl orgasm; anywhere, fingering, oral, penatrative. She seems to really enjoy penatrative but she says her x made her orgasm and when I ask she says "no" or "no but it was close". Obv i want to make her go. any tips here? is this typical?
Sorry, my definition of sex is me inside her, not including foreplay. So I do between 20mins to 2 hours of me being inside her. You say that many women become tired and sore after 10 mins, could this be the case here? I mean she doesnt seem like she is tired or bored, but that could be me being too "distracted". Do you think this is the case or am I worrying too much?
2 hours of vaginal intercourse? Are you totally desensitised? Either that or you have a mechanical penis!
lol; last time I checked my penis was flesh.
as for sensitivity; i dunno? what counts as none?
it feels really great... if a little tiring.
its certainly enjoyable enough to go into shivers; and want to go again after.
And i think I have multiple orgasms (because it feels alot more... multiple.. during sex than masturbation)...
So in other words Im not worried about me or my enjoyment, but I want to make sure my girl is happy!
You have one lucky girl!!! Good luck to you. Possibly a very relaxing environment may help?
*And always ask her exactly what she wants you to do, touch, lick, etc. Ask her to get techinical!
Are you keeping score Ms Venus or just taking notes?
If yo were to do a female poll on how long we enjoy "thrusting" I suspect that 20 minutes would be on the high end. Depending upon the position, that is a long time to hold it and each thrust pumps some lubrication out - faster than it can be replaced. Beyond twenty minutes, I lose interest.
i enjoy about 20-45 min a night with my man. what helped with us is to let go and listen to what our bodys were telling us. just let her direct you it should help if nothing else.
huh? What does that mean?
I feel better about the situation, your replies and searching through past posts has helped. I feel better but not totally confident. i guess time will tell; thanks for clearing these issues up guys. it helps/
Brandye, I would like to say that I have read many of your posts and you always seem to give wonderful pieces of advice. I think that you really do this forum a tremedous service by taking the time to help with your thoughtout answers. Well Done. (not that you needed me to say so but I did anyway).
Thank you, Constant!