You can't really base it on age.
I mean you could have a 16 yr old that's very sexually active and wouldn't be as tight as a 25 yr old virgin or one who's only had 1 partner.
I wouldn't want 3-4 fingers... 2 is just right for me, and I'm not extremely tight or loose.
Is she fully relaxed and aroused? that usually plays the biggest part in how tight a woman is and how easily fingers/penises can be inserted.
Lots of foreplay and extra lube if necessary can help.
The "barrier" might just be the neck of the Cervix and not the end of the tunnel.
The vagina can and does expand to accommodate just about any size penis.
You can slide your finger around the "bottle neck" of the Cervix and find more depth to the vagina.
There is nothing you can personally do to change her tightness; however, this is something she can do. There are two approaches; first, she can use a graduated dildo or some items like a cuccumber, English cuccumber, carot stick, or candle stick to work with the vaginal opening in order to make it more complient. Second, she can do an exercise I recommend that is to soak in a bathtub filled with clear warm water--no soap or bubble bath. The warm water will help soften her skin. While sitting she can insert a finger and tug on the entrance holding the pressure for a few moments before moving on to the next quadrant.
The exercise takes a good couple of weeks or so of daily stretching. At some point she should be able to insert two fingers, either from one hand or one from each. Either way, she can continue tugging only this time using her fingers in opposition as she works her way around. She should plan on spending about twenty minutes or so at this once or twice a day. You may or may not ever get three fingers to go inside, it all depends....
The appearance can change all depending upon whether she has given birth and/or added weight and/or lost weight and/or continued to grow and develop during part of those years.
You can't really base it on age.
I mean you could have a 16 yr old that's very sexually active and wouldn't be as tight as a 25 yr old virgin or one who's only had 1 partner.
I wouldn't want 3-4 fingers... 2 is just right for me, and I'm not extremely tight or loose.
Is she fully relaxed and aroused? that usually plays the biggest part in how tight a woman is and how easily fingers/penises can be inserted.
Lots of foreplay and extra lube if necessary can help.
The "barrier" might just be the neck of the Cervix and not the end of the tunnel.
The vagina can and does expand to accommodate just about any size penis.
You can slide your finger around the "bottle neck" of the Cervix and find more depth to the vagina.
There is nothing you can personally do to change her tightness; however, this is something she can do. There are two approaches; first, she can use a graduated dildo or some items like a cuccumber, English cuccumber, carot stick, or candle stick to work with the vaginal opening in order to make it more complient. Second, she can do an exercise I recommend that is to soak in a bathtub filled with clear warm water--no soap or bubble bath. The warm water will help soften her skin. While sitting she can insert a finger and tug on the entrance holding the pressure for a few moments before moving on to the next quadrant.
The exercise takes a good couple of weeks or so of daily stretching. At some point she should be able to insert two fingers, either from one hand or one from each. Either way, she can continue tugging only this time using her fingers in opposition as she works her way around. She should plan on spending about twenty minutes or so at this once or twice a day. You may or may not ever get three fingers to go inside, it all depends....
The appearance can change all depending upon whether she has given birth and/or added weight and/or lost weight and/or continued to grow and develop during part of those years.