As I have learnt, I tried to have sex with somebody and they just couldnt get themselves inside me, and they just kept forcing and it wouldn't go, so i told him to get off me, being with him made me feel physically sick anyways. Then I got with somebody else after that, and he made me feel so special and gentley went inside me. It hurt a little bit and I did want him to stop at one point because the pain was immense but after we'd done it once I was fine. Advice to your girlfriend, everybody's first entry hurts alot, and its a case of grin and bear it otherwise you'll stay a virgin the rest of your life. Sorry to sound so harsh. Hope its been of some help and support though.
Irrespective of body frame, 95% of all vaginas will accommodate 95% of all penis'. Many women do have a bit of vaginismus early in their experience. If it gets worse, she needs some prefessional help. Take it slow and easy and things will likely work out well.
i had the same fing, me and my gf tried for her first time, not mine. and when i was on top there was no way it would go in, non at all. but when she went on top only a bit went in, like 1/2 an inch. i fink its just because it was her 1st time......what do you think?
Last week me and my girlfriend went to have sex for the first time, she's not a virgin whereas I am (although I have done everthing else)...
Everything was going fine, I had a condom on and I went to insert my penis into her vagina...
But, my penis would not go inside her. She's got a quite a small frame which probably meant she was quite tight, and I've been told I've had a large penis...
Also, before we went to have sex she had given me a handjob and I came because of this...
So, I was wondering if it wouldn't go in because I couldn't get back to my full erectness due to ejaculating previously, or could it be something else?
I love my girlfriend, and I've been worrying because I'm scared that we won't be able to have sex...
So I was wondering if I could have some advice if possible...
mostly it can be psycological block she may be aroused but subconsciously not wanting it or being worried, perhaps a doc on here can enlarge on this... pls ?
she may just be nervous if it is her 1st time and the stress could make it harder 4 u 2 enter her just try take it slow and see what happens. mayb use lube and most of all communicate with eachother.
Man I'm surprised this has happened to other people as well... heh.
Well the first time I had sex, I had the same problem. I felt like I was going to hurt her really really badly if I tried to get inside because it just wasn't working out ...
But after a healthy several hours of foreplay, she herself was the one who guided me inside, and I assumed that the only reason it seemed like I was hung like the Empire State Building was because she really wasn't arroused enough. (and no I'm not as big as the empire state building ~.^)
Then we had sex 30 minutes later and that problem never reared its ugly head again.
I would suggest that she get on top. That would allow better entry and lets her control the pace. I know the first time I had sex it seemed really awkward with the guy on the top but once I was on top, things went smoothly and I felt no pain until the last, oh 4 seconds.
i have a very small frame 28 24 28 and the first time i did it he tried on top and it didn't work so i got on top and slowlyworked it in me. i have been fingered a few times prior though and i thinks that helped.
As I have learnt, I tried to have sex with somebody and they just couldnt get themselves inside me, and they just kept forcing and it wouldn't go, so i told him to get off me, being with him made me feel physically sick anyways. Then I got with somebody else after that, and he made me feel so special and gentley went inside me. It hurt a little bit and I did want him to stop at one point because the pain was immense but after we'd done it once I was fine. Advice to your girlfriend, everybody's first entry hurts alot, and its a case of grin and bear it otherwise you'll stay a virgin the rest of your life. Sorry to sound so harsh. Hope its been of some help and support though.
Irrespective of body frame, 95% of all vaginas will accommodate 95% of all penis'. Many women do have a bit of vaginismus early in their experience. If it gets worse, she needs some prefessional help. Take it slow and easy and things will likely work out well.
i had the same fing, me and my gf tried for her first time, not mine. and when i was on top there was no way it would go in, non at all. but when she went on top only a bit went in, like 1/2 an inch. i fink its just because it was her 1st time......what do you think?
Basically, here's my problem...
Last week me and my girlfriend went to have sex for the first time, she's not a virgin whereas I am (although I have done everthing else)...
Everything was going fine, I had a condom on and I went to insert my penis into her vagina...
But, my penis would not go inside her. She's got a quite a small frame which probably meant she was quite tight, and I've been told I've had a large penis...
Also, before we went to have sex she had given me a handjob and I came because of this...
So, I was wondering if it wouldn't go in because I couldn't get back to my full erectness due to ejaculating previously, or could it be something else?
I love my girlfriend, and I've been worrying because I'm scared that we won't be able to have sex...
So I was wondering if I could have some advice if possible...
Thanks
mostly it can be psycological block she may be aroused but subconsciously not wanting it or being worried, perhaps a doc on here can enlarge on this... pls ?
she may just be nervous if it is her 1st time and the stress could make it harder 4 u 2 enter her just try take it slow and see what happens. mayb use lube and most of all communicate with eachother.
Man I'm surprised this has happened to other people as well... heh.
Well the first time I had sex, I had the same problem. I felt like I was going to hurt her really really badly if I tried to get inside because it just wasn't working out ...
But after a healthy several hours of foreplay, she herself was the one who guided me inside, and I assumed that the only reason it seemed like I was hung like the Empire State Building was because she really wasn't arroused enough. (and no I'm not as big as the empire state building ~.^)
Then we had sex 30 minutes later and that problem never reared its ugly head again.
I would suggest that she get on top. That would allow better entry and lets her control the pace. I know the first time I had sex it seemed really awkward with the guy on the top but once I was on top, things went smoothly and I felt no pain until the last, oh 4 seconds.
i have a very small frame 28 24 28 and the first time i did it he tried on top and it didn't work so i got on top and slowlyworked it in me. i have been fingered a few times prior though and i thinks that helped.