For your car reply, I've answered that in your thread.

Now, onto this issue.

Once again, we have a lot in common. I have a very ticklish boyfriend as well, though I must say not as much as yours. I can't kiss his neck because he's ticklish there (which drives me insane because I want to so bad) and if I lightly drag my nails anywhere for some length of time, it tickles him.

BUT I've learned (at least for us since I know you're not sexually active) that while having sex, if I kiss his neck, it doesn't bother him. I don't konw if its because he's concentrating on other things or just in that mood. So the next time you're giving your man head, try running your hands up his chest to see if that helps.

As for him hateing his balls....:confused: I don't see why because my boyfriend loves when I play with his..so he does just hate them all together or does he hate when you play with them?

> He's ticklish. His entire chest area is ticklish, and his ears as well- I odn't know if it's just a trust issue but it's hard to do anything new for him when:

I do not believe it is an issue of trust. These are nerves you are titillating and as any of us (male or female) become very highly aroused, many of our nerve endings can go "super sensitive". On the one hand it is a great indicator of his being turned on by what you are doing; on the other, it is a major distraction.

What I have found to work to thwart the problem is two-fold:
1. Apply a bit more pressure to the skin as you skim over it. DO NOT try to be as light as a feather.

2. If and when he does begin to get ticklinsh--FREEZE. You can also rapidly rub back and forth with the palm or fingers on the affected area in order to squelch the ticklish sensations.

> A. he doesn't like to be touched on his neck/shoulders/chest/prostate/or anal glands at all (not like I would, that's not my boat)

I'm confused about the prostate and anal "glands". Do you mean specifically the Anus? If so, then wait until he is on the verge of a climax before fingering it. When you do you will probably notice that it puckers and presents some corrogations of skin providing more surface area to caress. The same can be said for the prostate. Massaging it augments any and all sensations being generated by other forms of caresses. Likewise, it is better to wait until he is really really turned on before massaging his prostate and sphincter muscles.

As for the neck/shoulders/chest, I think the solution rests with the aforementioned application of pressure.

> AND

B. He doesn't like his balls!

Like Lass, I want to know what you mean by this.

Guys scratch their scrotum all the time and for different reasons. On some instinctual level it simply feels good. You can scratch it by using a "come here" or a "back off" finger motion. Stretch an area of skin between the thum and finger(s) and apply one of these two finger movements.

You can also knead the skin between your fingers.

The testicles are primarily sensitive to impact pressure and not so much by squeezing. There is a fine line between pain and pleasure and to squeeze one of them just when he is about to climax will duplicate much the same boost as when massaging the prostate. What would otherwise be an annoying little ache when squeezed, this same pressure now becomes very arousing when done only at this point in time.

Massaging the prostate or gently squeezing a testicle when he is at or near the trigger point of an orgasm greatly enhances or boost the sensations felt from other forms of caressing. I often state that doing this is akin to lighting an afterbuner on a jet engine or reving up a turbo on a conventional gas engine. In addition to greatly intensifying a guys pleasure, doing one or the other will help trigger an illusive orgasm such as a difficult second or third one in a multiple string.

While the outside of the anus can be fingered anytime, these nerves, those beside the sphincters, and, those of the prostate only turn on and become very highly reactive when we are extremely turned on.

Prior to squeezing a testicle when he is really turned on, practice a couple of times when just fooling around in order to learn just how much pressure to apply to achieve that annoying little ache. Please keep in mind that the intent is to increase pleasure, not make a guy cringe! He must also understand the fine line between that ache and the resulting pleasure possible after he is aroused and nearing an orgasm as a result of that same amount of pressure being applied. Teach each other.