[FONT="Garamond"]after i perform oral sex on my boyfriend about an hour later or so i start to feel nautious and eventually throw up. this never happened until about 2 months ago.. and there's no way he has an std.[/FONT]
Thu, 07/12/2007 - 22:56
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Throw-up after giving him oral - Please Help Me!!
[QUOTE=kittens4eva;186353][FONT="Garamond">after i perform oral sex on my boyfriend about an hour later or so i start to feel nautious and eventually throw up. this never happened until about 2 months ago.. and there's no way he has an std.[/FONT][/QUOTE]
how is your menstrual cycle? still normal. haven't missed or skipped any periods?
and by 'no way he has an std' do u mean he has been recently tested or you are just guessing?
bit more info here mighta helped as its hard to tell from that short description
my cycle's normal.. regular as always...
and he doesn't have an std...because i'm guessing. because i know he hasn't done anything or been with another girl. so it's really not possible?
just.. for the past 6 times or so after i've given him head, i've gone and puked about an hour or so later. after the first 3-4 times i thought it was just a coincidence that i was puking, that it was something i ate earlier or something. but then on that 5th time i was sure that it couldn't be a coincidence that it was happening EVERY time after i gave him head. and now, we don't know what the problem is.. because it just started then, and it never ever happened before this previously.
i really don't know what else to write..
do you usually swallow it? it is possible to be allergic to semen...
i've always swallowed it... but before this whole puking thing, i had been giving him head for a long while, so i don't think it could be that... unless i could just now be allergic to it and not then?
Maybe he's stimulating your pharyngeal (gag) reflex. This seems highly unlikely though, considering it's an hour later.
Have you been drinking other fluids after giving him oral? Go for some water or milk. Ejaculate is a very sticky substance and will stick to anything if given the chance. Perhaps some of it is getting stuck in the back of your throat and forcing you to throw up.
Do you feel nauseous or have an upset stomach? Or is it just, "Oh ****, I need to puke"?
Weird I responded yesterday but it's not here lol
I was saying has he changed something in his diet recently or maybe a medication that could somehow filter down to the semen and it is something you are allergic too??
I mean it's strange since it's awhile later...not like right when he does it.
Okay so what's REALLY going on in your relationship with this fellow? Something has changed in your relationship and you're not handling it at all well. What you are having is a psychological reaction, not a physical reaction to swallowing. In other words - some underlying issue between you two is causing you make yourself sick. I suggest you think about it, find out what it is that is lying between you, and then discuss it with him.
To Raidenator:
I think sometimes I've had water, maybe some juice too. I'm guessing around 20-30 minutes I start feeling sick, and get the same sound in my stomach which tells me the puking is coming. It has happened everytime.
To demonbuttercup:
He hasn't changed anything in his diet, and he's not on any medication.
To EvilEvilKitten:
I guess I'll think about it, but I don't think so? He seems to think it's all psychological too, but I don't agree. I love giving head so why would I want to make myself puke after? I mean, maybe it is, but I really don't think anything between us has changed...that I know of...
To go4it:
No, he does not throw up after.
^^^ Kittens. You haven't happened to see any videos or anything like "The Miracle of Life" have you? Watching videos like that turned me off to sex for a while and I could certainly see how you swallowing would make you sick to your stomach.
EEK makes a good point. It does sound psychological. Are you sure you still "love" him? Do you still want to truly be with him?
Personally I would find it rather disgusting to give oral unless it was to a girl who I thought deserved my love. I don't particularly like it.
It's hard to say. Do you usually do it on a full stomach? Empty stomach? Do you eat afterwards?
Oh, and you say that you get the sound in your stomach? Does that mean it doesn't hurt at all but you just know it's coming?
haha no, i haven't seen that video, never even knew that something like it existed. and i definately am in love with him and couldn't even think to be with anyone else.
hmmmm.... sometimes on full stomach, sometimes half, sometimes empty. and of course i eat afterwards! i'm not annorexic and won't eat for 20 days ahah. no, but i think maybe a few times that i've thrown up, i before i do.
and that sounds goes along with the hurting.
Try keeping saltine crackers around and munch on them afterwards and have SIPS of fluids such as water. That should work.
also, the other day my boyfriend decided to see what would happen to him if he had some of his own cum. he had his whole load and he didn't feel sick or anything.
If it's not a psychological issue, the best I can figure is the semen is irritating your stomach lining. Thus, the reason for trying the saltines with small sips of water.
It's remotely possible that you've become "allergic" to his semen. I was just reading another thread in the forum about it.
I suppose it's a possibility. I dunno what to tell ya though. I'm not a doctor. It's hard to say.