So... having a threesome always seems to be a topic of dirty talk discussion while me and my bf are having sex. But when it actually comes down to it I don't think he will. Last night he said we could as long as the other guy did not come inside of me... that sounds pretty official... and then today he told me he was looking up threesomes on the internet... You would think he was just beating around the bush cause He really wants to but doesnt know if I do... This is not the case... HE KNOWS I want to. So what do yall think is the problem?
Wed, 03/22/2006 - 03:15
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Threesomes... or no somes? :)
One problem is that this is nearly identical to a post a month or so ago.
That said, he might be "beating around the bush" because he recognizes that just because you WANT to do something it doesn't mean you SHOULD do something.
I'd suggest you read some of the many threads about the threesome topic.
sounds like he is serious. Threesomes can be great! I have had them with both 2 other men and 2 other woman!!!
never tried it before but wwhat would the 2 girls do ?
Read around a bit. A woman last week posted on having had a threesome with lasting psychological effects.
if i was you i would use a dildo first and he liked what he saw then maybe go for it.
I agree with bren321. Although using a dildo is NOTHING like watching your GF with another man, it may evoke some emotion (although unfortunately very erotic and still private). Watching your GF get off with the aid of something other then her hand or yourself may deter you.
The matter of trust will always be a question. If you guys can discuss this openly and believe you are mature enough to experience it, set ground Rules, abide by them and enjoy the 3some!
My girlfriend and I had our first threesome over the weekend with another woman. Now in case you're wondering we've been together 2 years, happy, and love sex blah, blah, blah. Now the threesome. Not as exciting as I thought it would be. We all talked about this...alot. Did we really want to do it, all that. Side note: I had never had sex with anyone else in the same room(somehow that turned me on). Anyway, so I go down on my girl, while they kiss, then I hear gagging, couldn't figure that out. (Found out later, the other chick couldn't kiss). So I go down on the other chick, and she eats my girlfriend, who quickly changes positions and sucks my dick. (Found out later the other chick couldn't eat her pussy either). So my girlfriend puts a condom on me and wants to watch me **** this other girl, she ****ing lays there. I lose my hard-on. The girl can't **** either. So I wait 15 minutes, then **** my girlfriend with the other chick watching. I found out I really like someone watching, so did my girlfriend, so did the other girl, like watching. The thing is the other girl, she still wants me to have sex with her. Morale of this story is do some goddamned research before going through with it. We'll never have another threesome with her, but she can watch, hopefully for her next boyfriend's sake, she might learn something.
thats unlucky
yeah it's best to learn about the extra person before hand or it could turn disasterous. as to the problem maybe he is nervous he might not perform as well to the extra person
Hey sexismypasstime. I sent you a private message. lets chat.
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^^ Not me!
Does it happen sometimes or to someone that, one gets nervous to perform sex in presence of another ( third or more ) persons.
Like a couple decides to have an extra man to enjoy. All is thought well , planned well, but when it actually happens , one of the partner of couple doesnt enjoy as they had planned of.