I have been dating this guy for a couple months and we're very comfortable sexually with each other. We waited until the fourth date to have sex, which was difficult to do. I LOVE sex but have not been very sexually adventurous due to the partners I've had in the past (mostly serious relationships). During sex, my guy has started to bring up threesomes, both with another girl AND another guy (he likes the idea of me with a guy). My main question is this - I am definitely turned on by the thought of this but if I agree to it, is there any chance of the relationship with my guy going bust? I am very attractive, successful, I have a great family and have a reputation of being a "good girl". By doing these sexual acts, am I taking myself out of the "wife material" arena? I need honesty please because this will determine how far I go with this.
Thanks!!
If your questioning yourself on this subject then maybe its not your ball park? It all depends on the individual. personally I limit my sexual incounters, for the fact of diseases and for me personally sex is an intimate thing shared between two people. but hey other people have different outlooks on this. some people I know are all for it. the best thing I can say is that if you have doubts and questions screaming in your ear then take your time and hold off. this will also show you the kind of man your dating. you have all the time in the world. for it IS your decision.
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