We had a mfm threesome and surprisingly I felt no jealousy or insecurity. I loved seeing my wife enjoy herself and shariing her with another man. We also found out a few new things to do that has enhanced or sex life. My wife is bi-sexual and I have watched her with other women without participating. I have expressed an interest in a fmf and she is having alot of problems with the concept of seeing me with another woman. I would never push her into a situation that she doesn't feel comfortable with, but I cant help but feel that I am not being treated fairly. We have talked extensively about this and I have backed off the idea. By the way this was all her idea.
Mon, 08/01/2005 - 16:23
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threesomes equal oppurtunity
Dear Redbone,
Not being treated fairly? Because your wife feels uncomfortable about you making love to other women?
Forget about fairness. You are not involved in a business negotiation. Sexual attitudes are far more complicated and fairness does not enter the picture. I'm assuming that your wife is a thoughtful and considerate woman and that it is only in this area in which she disappoints you. If I'm wrong in this assumption, than your problem is far greater than her reluctance to participate in fmf threesomes.
Some things we just can't or shouldn't do because of our psychological orientation. Tell me, Redbone, in your mfm menage, did you blow the other guy? Would you if she asked?
