I would say it's not for everyone. If you are not overly self conscious, not insecure about your relationship, not insecure about yourself as a sex partner, have an open mind and are willing and able to have a great time with a couple of friends who you trust a lot and are not concerned that a menage a trois might damage the friendship then it can be great! And yes, that is mmf or ffm. I have done both and they both have their merits.
I like MFM because frankly I am selfish and want to be the center of attention. My husband is kool with it and is not afraid of other cock(s) in the room. We have done a number of MFM and FMF, and Two MMFM. They were WILD. I was air tight!
[QUOTE=saikat;254753]hey guys, what do you think of threesome sex?
which one would you prefer, mfm or fmf encounter.
Feel free to share your views.[/QUOTE]
My dear Saikat, threesome is not only for guys. Sex onesome( mastrubation) , twosome (mm, mf ) , threesome ( mfm, fmf ) foursome ( mffm, mmmf, mfff, mmmm, ffff ) is for all participants to enjoy. So, why are you asking only guys.
I dont prefer females in anytype of sex. Not tried more that threesome.
I think its more of chemistry of the participants. Threesome or moresome with spouse present you have to do lot of homework. Communication is the key. You should know how to break ice. You should not feel embarassed if your spouse enjoys more with others. Its like do it and forget it attitude. Then it would work.
the person in minority in threesome will be the centre of attracton whether its mfm or fmf. So a man will generally look for fmf whereas a woman look for mfm encounter provided they are not bi.
what you say friends?
I'm selfish and I'd rather beat two females or let them have there way with me. But if it were two guy it would have to be me and a buddy of mine. YOU MY BOY BLUE!!!"
I want to try this but have no idea how to start. my friend ( aka sex buddy)is really into this idea but i am not sure i know what to do or how to do it . I like sex and i like trying new things but what should i be expecting from a threesome? does anyone have tips that will help me look like i know what the hell i am doing
[QUOTE=kelsey658;255058]I want to try this but have no idea how to start. my friend ( aka sex buddy)is really into this idea but i am not sure i know what to do or how to do it . I like sex and i like trying new things but what should i be expecting from a threesome? does anyone have tips that will help me look like i know what the hell i am doing[/QUOTE]
i think your friend (sex Buddy) is more than that. Is it possible that you may have feelings for that friend that you wouldn't like to mess up???
I'm trying my first mfm this weekend. I'm a guy and it's much easier for us to find a couple willing to bring in another guy, than anything. In my case I found a friend who wants to double team girls, so we put an add on adultfriendfinder, and craigslist. We got good responses from woman who have always dreamed of the mfm. Some i'm hopefully going to get two mfm done this weekend. we are also planning with one of the girls a double viagina penatration. It's going to be GREAT
[QUOTE=saikat;254753]hey guys, what do you think of threesome sex?
which one would you prefer, mfm or fmf encounter.
Feel free to share your views.[/QUOTE]
I had fmf. I was married at the time. My husband really wanted to see my and my twin sister together. It was always one of his fantasies, so we did it a couple times. I gotta say, it was a turn-on watching him fuck my sister. I wanna try mfm now.
I would love to try fmf and im a chick but im scared that when it happens id get too jealous of my partner and another chick even tho im bi and would love to be able to get it on with another chick myself. I think there can also be alot of pressure to make sure you were not going to disappoint any of the other team players
[QUOTE=puttykat;255386]I had fmf. I was married at the time. My husband really wanted to see my and my twin sister together. It was always one of his fantasies, so we did it a couple times. I gotta say, it was a turn-on watching him fuck my sister. I wanna try mfm now.[/QUOTE]
Blimey! really? with your sister, that's a thought, wow
[QUOTE=salliann;254774]I like MFM because frankly I am selfish and want to be the center of attention. My husband is kool with it and is not afraid of other cock(s) in the room. We have done a number of MFM and FMF, and Two MMFM. They were WILD. I was air tight!
Hope that helps.
Salli[/QUOTE]
We have tried mfm but not mmfm. If tried, would it be a fun for me or the boys. " they were wild" Does it mean, they were struggling to get their turn? Was your husband present during mmfm. Who planed the sequence?
What was it like ?
My wife and i have had many mfm encounters.Once she tried it the first time she was hooked.It has been with 5 different guys but multiple times.All of them have been friends of ours.Not bi so it's up to her to please both.;)
Up to her to please both? WOW - you need to rethink that, buddy.
I have participated in various groups for some time now and I can keep going WAAY longer than the guys can. Also, most women in my 'mode of life' say and do the same.
Groups are NOT for everyone. Sex is predictable depending upon the people involved and/or if the interlude is planned out beforehand. We all have our boundaries, thank you.
BTW There is nothing virtuous about being selfish so stop crowing about it.
If you can't stop being jealous...tsk tsk tsk...then you should NOT try ANY group play ever.
Me and my GF often joked about threesomes, both ffm and mmf. The thing is we are not sure if we would ever be willing to do it, and I am a bit uncomfortable about having another dick in the room, much less having sex with her, and she is slightly uncomfortable about me having sex with another woman. and at our current stage in the relationship, its not the best idea to bring up, unless we are joking of course. Perhaps we might explore the option in the future.
[QUOTE=hdnva;256037]My wife and i have had many mfm encounters.Once she tried it the first time she was hooked.It has been with 5 different guys but multiple times.All of them have been friends of ours.Not bi so it's up to her to please both.;)[/QUOTE]
What do you mean, It's up to her to please both, have you got that the wrong way round, like it's up to you two to please her! no wonder men get a bad name.
Sorry....that came out
Totally WRONG. I only
Meant that I'm not bi
So she has to get both
Off some way by the end.
She is def.the center of
Attention.Did not mean it
To sound like that.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;256080]MFM is known as a Queen Threesome and FMF is known as a King Threesome. The reason for this is obvious.[/QUOTE]
I belive that if a girl want a 3some it should be MFM. 3some is for getting more. I would like to enjoy being given all attention by boys rather than ignored as it generally happens in FMF. Normally, because male have only one cock. While we girls have many things for boys to have fun with.
When you have a spouse you MUST discuss extra-marital adventures with her/him. You do this by having an open and honest conversation with her/him dealing with desires and fantasies.
If you don't have the courage to do this then you have no business going 'outside' to play.
I want to try threesome. But not sure of MfM or FmF. Confused how to break ice with wife. How to convince her 3some. Secondly, how to approach third person. M or F. or is it better to try unknown . Or even avoid wife and go for totally new combination of all three unknown!!
Eager but still clueless as of where to start.
Well I've had 3somes in the past but it was just me and one of my buddy's doing his girlfriend. Now looking back on it I don't regret it, but I do want it to try it with 2 girls, just for the heck of it. I had the chance years ago, but backed out due to the fact that my past girlfriend was insane. So the two girl thing will have to wait for another time, until my current love decides too.
[QUOTE=sania;256193]I belive that if a girl want a 3some it should be MFM. 3some is for getting more. I would like to enjoy being given all attention by boys rather than ignored as it generally happens in FMF. Normally, because male have only one cock. While we girls have many things for boys to have fun with.[/QUOTE]
We did a fmf which my wife did not enjoy, I try to get my wife to eat the other woman pussy but she would not do it, she has no sexual desire to be with a woman.
But from the first time we did our mfm, she became so wild and horny, she loved being the center of attention with two guys at the same time
She loves having the ability to please two guys at the same time sexually.
[QUOTE=puttykat;255386]I had fmf. I was married at the time. My husband really wanted to see my and my twin sister together. It was always one of his fantasies, so we did it a couple times. I gotta say, it was a turn-on watching him fuck my sister. I wanna try mfm now.[/QUOTE] Wow, your ex was a lucky man. Being able to have twin sex is a huge fantasy and to be lucky enough that your wife is a twin and the sister is willing is lightning striking the same place twice!
I dated a girl a year younger than me going into her first year away at college. We had been together over a year, and not counting other sexual activity, i was the first person she ever had sex with. We only saw each other 3x during the first semester of school and decided for the spring semester that while we loved each other, it was tough on us, and we felt we were each missing out so we were going to try a 'dont ask dont tell' type thing.
We went until spring break (about 7-8 weeks) without seeing each other though we talked almost every night, neither of us ever asking or telling about any other hookups
I went to visit her, and while drinking felt compelled for a friendly Q&A. She agreed to answer on the account I cant get mad, which I agreed upon. She wouldnt give exact details but admitted to having had sex with other guys there and on more than 1 occassion with 1 guy. (who apparently was in a similar situation as her, with a girlfriend far away at another school)
I knew we had agreed on this, and since i was the one that asked, i admired her honesty and wasnt the least bit upset with her.
2 nights later she gets a text which turned out to be a booty call from that guy. Since she had basically admitted most of what she had done to me, she didnt seem ashamed and actually found it humorous to show me the text when she got it. I said invite him over, as i knew I had felt comfortable with the thought of her with someone else, and whenelse might an opportunity like this arise again. (alcohol helped push this decision along as well)
She turned this down at first but then was open to the idea as long as it was my idea, and that she wouldnt treat him any different than any other time they had sex.
She text him back to come over and while I was a little nervous about how things would go, especially when he got there and saw another guy, he actually seemed completely indifferent when he walked in and i was there. She before hand told me to wait a minute in the hall (she lived in a suite with a common area) so things might be less awkward to start on. I waited about 90 seconds and walked in to see he was sitting in her desk chair while she was on her knees servicing. Not sure how to enter myself into this, I walked back out and waited 2 more minutes before coming back in to see her now undressed from the wasted down on the bed as he was returning the favor, and from this point i hopped on the bed with her and joined in the action.
Our little threesome went on for about a half hour and the next day, neither of us felt ashamed or upset. It was actually a very pleasant experience without going into all the details
Try telling her you want to do it for her. My approach was a MMF was a more safer option than a FFM because I knew I wouldnt be jealous (at least I didnt think i would) while I was afraid she might be if we did another girl. Sad to say but your best bet is another guy maybe in a relationship, who would want to keep it secret (and plus you know would be disease free) so long as he doesnt mind cheating on his own.
I would say it's not for everyone. If you are not overly self conscious, not insecure about your relationship, not insecure about yourself as a sex partner, have an open mind and are willing and able to have a great time with a couple of friends who you trust a lot and are not concerned that a menage a trois might damage the friendship then it can be great! And yes, that is mmf or ffm. I have done both and they both have their merits.
Do a search on threesomes and you will find dozens of threads.
I like MFM because frankly I am selfish and want to be the center of attention. My husband is kool with it and is not afraid of other cock(s) in the room. We have done a number of MFM and FMF, and Two MMFM. They were WILD. I was air tight!
Hope that helps.
Salli
am interested in mfm threesome and id like to try it soon
[QUOTE=saikat;254753]hey guys, what do you think of threesome sex?
which one would you prefer, mfm or fmf encounter.
Feel free to share your views.[/QUOTE]
My dear Saikat, threesome is not only for guys. Sex onesome( mastrubation) , twosome (mm, mf ) , threesome ( mfm, fmf ) foursome ( mffm, mmmf, mfff, mmmm, ffff ) is for all participants to enjoy. So, why are you asking only guys.
I dont prefer females in anytype of sex. Not tried more that threesome.
I think its more of chemistry of the participants. Threesome or moresome with spouse present you have to do lot of homework. Communication is the key. You should know how to break ice. You should not feel embarassed if your spouse enjoys more with others. Its like do it and forget it attitude. Then it would work.
Thats my views.
the person in minority in threesome will be the centre of attracton whether its mfm or fmf. So a man will generally look for fmf whereas a woman look for mfm encounter provided they are not bi.
what you say friends?
I agree to some extent with Saikat. Any person would like to have more of opposite sex. That is all about moresome.
depends, there just better be an overall practice of safe sex.
I'm selfish and I'd rather beat two females or let them have there way with me. But if it were two guy it would have to be me and a buddy of mine. YOU MY BOY BLUE!!!"
I want to try this but have no idea how to start. my friend ( aka sex buddy)is really into this idea but i am not sure i know what to do or how to do it . I like sex and i like trying new things but what should i be expecting from a threesome? does anyone have tips that will help me look like i know what the hell i am doing
i dont agree on "the person in minority in threesome will be the centre of attraction". things can go anyway (sex is unpredictable)
[QUOTE=kelsey658;255058]I want to try this but have no idea how to start. my friend ( aka sex buddy)is really into this idea but i am not sure i know what to do or how to do it . I like sex and i like trying new things but what should i be expecting from a threesome? does anyone have tips that will help me look like i know what the hell i am doing[/QUOTE]
i think your friend (sex Buddy) is more than that. Is it possible that you may have feelings for that friend that you wouldn't like to mess up???
I'm trying my first mfm this weekend. I'm a guy and it's much easier for us to find a couple willing to bring in another guy, than anything. In my case I found a friend who wants to double team girls, so we put an add on adultfriendfinder, and craigslist. We got good responses from woman who have always dreamed of the mfm. Some i'm hopefully going to get two mfm done this weekend. we are also planning with one of the girls a double viagina penatration. It's going to be GREAT
Always dreamed of it? Perhaps prostitutes on their night off.
[QUOTE=saikat;254753]hey guys, what do you think of threesome sex?
which one would you prefer, mfm or fmf encounter.
Feel free to share your views.[/QUOTE]
I had fmf. I was married at the time. My husband really wanted to see my and my twin sister together. It was always one of his fantasies, so we did it a couple times. I gotta say, it was a turn-on watching him fuck my sister. I wanna try mfm now.
I would love to try fmf and im a chick but im scared that when it happens id get too jealous of my partner and another chick even tho im bi and would love to be able to get it on with another chick myself. I think there can also be alot of pressure to make sure you were not going to disappoint any of the other team players
[QUOTE=puttykat;255386]I had fmf. I was married at the time. My husband really wanted to see my and my twin sister together. It was always one of his fantasies, so we did it a couple times. I gotta say, it was a turn-on watching him fuck my sister. I wanna try mfm now.[/QUOTE]
Blimey! really? with your sister, that's a thought, wow
[QUOTE=salliann;254774]I like MFM because frankly I am selfish and want to be the center of attention. My husband is kool with it and is not afraid of other cock(s) in the room. We have done a number of MFM and FMF, and Two MMFM. They were WILD. I was air tight!
Hope that helps.
Salli[/QUOTE]
We have tried mfm but not mmfm. If tried, would it be a fun for me or the boys. " they were wild" Does it mean, they were struggling to get their turn? Was your husband present during mmfm. Who planed the sequence?
What was it like ?
My wife and i have had many mfm encounters.Once she tried it the first time she was hooked.It has been with 5 different guys but multiple times.All of them have been friends of ours.Not bi so it's up to her to please both.;)
Up to her to please both? WOW - you need to rethink that, buddy.
I have participated in various groups for some time now and I can keep going WAAY longer than the guys can. Also, most women in my 'mode of life' say and do the same.
Groups are NOT for everyone. Sex is predictable depending upon the people involved and/or if the interlude is planned out beforehand. We all have our boundaries, thank you.
BTW There is nothing virtuous about being selfish so stop crowing about it.
If you can't stop being jealous...tsk tsk tsk...then you should NOT try ANY group play ever.
Me and my GF often joked about threesomes, both ffm and mmf. The thing is we are not sure if we would ever be willing to do it, and I am a bit uncomfortable about having another dick in the room, much less having sex with her, and she is slightly uncomfortable about me having sex with another woman. and at our current stage in the relationship, its not the best idea to bring up, unless we are joking of course. Perhaps we might explore the option in the future.
[QUOTE=hdnva;256037]My wife and i have had many mfm encounters.Once she tried it the first time she was hooked.It has been with 5 different guys but multiple times.All of them have been friends of ours.Not bi so it's up to her to please both.;)[/QUOTE]
What do you mean, It's up to her to please both, have you got that the wrong way round, like it's up to you two to please her! no wonder men get a bad name.
MFM is known as a Queen Threesome and FMF is known as a King Threesome. The reason for this is obvious.
Sorry....that came out
Totally WRONG. I only
Meant that I'm not bi
So she has to get both
Off some way by the end.
She is def.the center of
Attention.Did not mean it
To sound like that.
Good!
Info: a woman who has totally embraced her sexuality and truly enjoys sex will have NO trouble whatsoever utterly exhausting two men.
[QUOTE=EvilEvilKitten;256080]MFM is known as a Queen Threesome and FMF is known as a King Threesome. The reason for this is obvious.[/QUOTE]
I belive that if a girl want a 3some it should be MFM. 3some is for getting more. I would like to enjoy being given all attention by boys rather than ignored as it generally happens in FMF. Normally, because male have only one cock. While we girls have many things for boys to have fun with.
It is possible for 1 man to delight 2 women simultaneously - just requires some skill.
This sounds totally interesting to me, but how to broach the subject with the SO? Any ideas?
Discuss it as a fantasy of yours and invite the SO to relate fantasies of his/hers.
How do you go about finding someone to have a 3some with? My bf and I want to try it but have no idea how to approach anyone about it. Any ideas??
How do you go about finding someone to have a 3some with? My bf and I would like to try it but don't know how to approach anyone about it. Any ideas??
make a profile on adultspace.com and find someone locally... thats how i did it with my gf
MMS - you get in touch with your local Lifestyle/Swing group and ask.
BTW if you're too shy to ask, then you're NOT ready.
When you have a spouse you MUST discuss extra-marital adventures with her/him. You do this by having an open and honest conversation with her/him dealing with desires and fantasies.
If you don't have the courage to do this then you have no business going 'outside' to play.
I want to try threesome. But not sure of MfM or FmF. Confused how to break ice with wife. How to convince her 3some. Secondly, how to approach third person. M or F. or is it better to try unknown . Or even avoid wife and go for totally new combination of all three unknown!!
Eager but still clueless as of where to start.
Well I've had 3somes in the past but it was just me and one of my buddy's doing his girlfriend. Now looking back on it I don't regret it, but I do want it to try it with 2 girls, just for the heck of it. I had the chance years ago, but backed out due to the fact that my past girlfriend was insane. So the two girl thing will have to wait for another time, until my current love decides too.
[QUOTE=sania;256193]I belive that if a girl want a 3some it should be MFM. 3some is for getting more. I would like to enjoy being given all attention by boys rather than ignored as it generally happens in FMF. Normally, because male have only one cock. While we girls have many things for boys to have fun with.[/QUOTE]
We did a fmf which my wife did not enjoy, I try to get my wife to eat the other woman pussy but she would not do it, she has no sexual desire to be with a woman.
But from the first time we did our mfm, she became so wild and horny, she loved being the center of attention with two guys at the same time
She loves having the ability to please two guys at the same time sexually.
[QUOTE=puttykat;255386]I had fmf. I was married at the time. My husband really wanted to see my and my twin sister together. It was always one of his fantasies, so we did it a couple times. I gotta say, it was a turn-on watching him fuck my sister. I wanna try mfm now.[/QUOTE] Wow, your ex was a lucky man. Being able to have twin sex is a huge fantasy and to be lucky enough that your wife is a twin and the sister is willing is lightning striking the same place twice!
how does any one fill about doing 69 all night long
all night long?!?! are ya nuts?? I have to go to work in the morning!!
And it doesn't take me that long to have an orgasm, or 6 million, anyway
Short version:
I dated a girl a year younger than me going into her first year away at college. We had been together over a year, and not counting other sexual activity, i was the first person she ever had sex with. We only saw each other 3x during the first semester of school and decided for the spring semester that while we loved each other, it was tough on us, and we felt we were each missing out so we were going to try a 'dont ask dont tell' type thing.
We went until spring break (about 7-8 weeks) without seeing each other though we talked almost every night, neither of us ever asking or telling about any other hookups
I went to visit her, and while drinking felt compelled for a friendly Q&A. She agreed to answer on the account I cant get mad, which I agreed upon. She wouldnt give exact details but admitted to having had sex with other guys there and on more than 1 occassion with 1 guy. (who apparently was in a similar situation as her, with a girlfriend far away at another school)
I knew we had agreed on this, and since i was the one that asked, i admired her honesty and wasnt the least bit upset with her.
2 nights later she gets a text which turned out to be a booty call from that guy. Since she had basically admitted most of what she had done to me, she didnt seem ashamed and actually found it humorous to show me the text when she got it. I said invite him over, as i knew I had felt comfortable with the thought of her with someone else, and whenelse might an opportunity like this arise again. (alcohol helped push this decision along as well)
She turned this down at first but then was open to the idea as long as it was my idea, and that she wouldnt treat him any different than any other time they had sex.
She text him back to come over and while I was a little nervous about how things would go, especially when he got there and saw another guy, he actually seemed completely indifferent when he walked in and i was there. She before hand told me to wait a minute in the hall (she lived in a suite with a common area) so things might be less awkward to start on. I waited about 90 seconds and walked in to see he was sitting in her desk chair while she was on her knees servicing. Not sure how to enter myself into this, I walked back out and waited 2 more minutes before coming back in to see her now undressed from the wasted down on the bed as he was returning the favor, and from this point i hopped on the bed with her and joined in the action.
Our little threesome went on for about a half hour and the next day, neither of us felt ashamed or upset. It was actually a very pleasant experience without going into all the details
my girl friend and i personally don't care for the likes of a three some because we both feel it to be betraying the other, but that's just us
If you both know and agree then there is no betrayal but since you're not married anyway the point is moot.
Closest we have come to a 3some is my wife, me and her dildo.
lol....if a dildo counts i guess we have had a few foursomes :)
I think it would be awesome to have a 3 some but I dont know how to really Go about asking
Try telling her you want to do it for her. My approach was a MMF was a more safer option than a FFM because I knew I wouldnt be jealous (at least I didnt think i would) while I was afraid she might be if we did another girl. Sad to say but your best bet is another guy maybe in a relationship, who would want to keep it secret (and plus you know would be disease free) so long as he doesnt mind cheating on his own.
Just join your local Swing/Lifestyle group. It really ISN'T all THAT difficult.
I have heard single men aren't as welcomed as single women are. Is that true eek?
Not AS welcome as single women esp single bisexual women but HEY - there are always women like me around who prefer MORE MEN.
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