Ok, just to tell you a little about my past sexual history... I've only had sex with two girls before, and the last time was over 3 years ago. Needless to say, it's been A WHILE and if I were to categorize myself, I would say I'm pretty much on the UNEXPERIENCED side of things.
Recently, I've been talking to these two female friends of mine (who are also friends with each other) and they have been yearning for some sexual release as well. They basically told me they just need a really good f***. Naturally, I told them "SURE!" but I'm actually REALLY NERVOUS. Both of these girls are more sexually experienced than I am and I've never really been able to last too long before. I would say, I could only last 5 minutes normally... and with 2 girls... I'm sure it'll be even faster.
One good thing though, is that they know about my sexual history so they know that I will finish early. I don't have to lie to them about that or anything. And of course, when I do finish early, they'll try to get me back up so we can continue. But I REALLY WANT THEM TO HAVE AN ENJOYABLE EXPERIENCE. I don't want to disappoint them.
So...
1. Can anyone give me tips on what I can do in a threesome situation?
2. Also, during the down-time after I cum, what are some ways I can keep them aroused and not spoil the mood?
3. What are some quick ways/tips to get hard again as soon as possible?
4. Ultimately, what can I do to PLEASE THEM? :confused:
Thanks for reading.
You're screwed. Just savor the 2 minutes and 15 seconds as much as you can. Try to get it on video.
During the downtime, perform a Vaudeville act in nothing but a pair of cowboy boots and cummerbund. That'll entertain 'em!
1. The only advice I can think of for this question is when with one of them and they are really horny and getting into it switch to the other. That way while you are with the other girl the first one should gain some desiring. Maybe you'll get lucky even and she will start playing with herself.
2. during your "down time" give one of them oral sex and rub the other girls clitoris. If you do this right this SHOULD help with you getting turned back on with their noises.
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5. Consider the strong possibility that they are probably just "making conversation" and enjoying teasing you, not necessarily in a mean way.
Thanks Jeff for your useful feedback. Sorry I don't know the answer to your question though. I believe there is a huge topic about it in the "other sex topics" forum though. It's a sticky.
WallyLlama - Yeah, I thought about that originally when we talked about it, and maybe they just wanted to mess around a bit (makeout or whatever), but later they explicitly told me what they ultimately want. And one of them I've known for MANY years and we're close. So they are definitely not "making conversation". If anyone is "making conversation" it would be me cuz I'm not sure if I can give them what they want. Cuz I know whatever they do, I'll be happy!
But any other ideas, anyone?
[QUOTE=ua322]You're screwed. Just savor the 2 minutes and 15 seconds as much as you can. Try to get it on video.
During the downtime, perform a Vaudeville act in nothing but a pair of cowboy boots and cummerbund. That'll entertain 'em![/QUOTE]
and while doing that...get a big pancake flipper from yer mom's house...and spank the girls repeatedly using your best Richard Simmons voice...who's yer daddy...who's yer daddy....ROFLMAO:D
[QUOTE=Luvs2plzU]and while doing that...get a big pancake flipper from yer mom's house...and spank the girls repeatedly using your best Richard Simmons voice...who's yer daddy...who's yer daddy....ROFLMAO:D[/QUOTE]
Nice.....
Then get out the tuba.....OOM PAH! PAH!
if you cant last long have them go at each other or take care of them first
> So...
> 1. Can anyone give me tips on what I can do in a threesome situation?
Asked and answered. In addition, just do for one what you do to the other and then take your cues from the reaction of each in turn.
> 2. Also, during the down-time after I cum, what are some ways I can keep them aroused and not spoil the mood?
That depends upon whether one or both of them have also climaxed.
If yes, then continue to lightly kiss and caress her giving a moment to recoup before working on the next orgasm.
If no, then continue to build her arousal and to help her reach and achieve her climax if it is to be.
> 3. What are some quick ways/tips to get hard again as soon as possible?
Do you mean after you have climaxed? The typical male down time is between fifteen and thirty minutes before we are ready to have another climax. The time varies by individual.
If you loose an erection while fooling around, then go on to other forms of caresses for a few minutes giving your penis a bit of a rest, then go at it again--either with more foreplay or with the direct appoach, which ever seems appropriate in the here and now.
> 4. Ultimately, what can I do to PLEASE THEM?
If you do not know the answer to this then you are in over your head.
ok.. try masturbating before you go to this 'event' as that will make you last longer (though not doing this myself i do not know)
i have found if you are tense you are alot quicker than if you are relaxed and enjoying yourself.. i remember my first time. i was quite nervous and lasted about 10-15 mins.... now that i am fully relaxed with my partner i can go up to and over an hour depending on positions, etc etc..
Basically if you are worried masturbate before hand, and stay relaxed and enjoy it, they will also enjoy it alot more if you are relaxed.
Thanks eddy, dancingdoc2, and Vper. Some of my worries have been eased a bit. I've been talking with the girls a bit more and I think the basic gameplan is that they are going to get me off first during foreplay, and then I go at them with foreplay (they won't be really doing anything to each other), and then when I'm hard again I'll just try to do the best I can! Haha. I was planning to masturbate before hand, but if they are going to make me cum in the beginning anyways, maybe I won't need to. Unsure... But yeah, you're right dancingdoc2... I'm probably in over my head about this. I just couldnt' pass up this opportunity though. Having a three-way is a major fantasy of mine.
Anyhow, if there are any more suggestions, please keep them coming. I'll keep you posted too. The "event" will be happening this weekend. *crosses fingers*
[QUOTE=JustKurious]Thanks eddy, dancingdoc2, and Vper. Some of my worries have been eased a bit. I've been talking with the girls a bit more and I think the basic gameplan is that they are going to get me off first during foreplay, and then I go at them with foreplay (they won't be really doing anything to each other), and then when I'm hard again I'll just try to do the best I can! Haha. I was planning to masturbate before hand, but if they are going to make me cum in the beginning anyways, maybe I won't need to. Unsure... But yeah, you're right dancingdoc2... I'm probably in over my head about this. I just couldnt' pass up this opportunity though. Having a three-way is a major fantasy of mine.
Anyhow, if there are any more suggestions, please keep them coming. I'll keep you posted too. The "event" will be happening this weekend. *crosses fingers*[/QUOTE]
Hell no, don't pass it up!
And I would still try to get it on video if I were you. :D
my advice to u is to keep giving them oral for the longest time u can then start sex ,also u play for them first
I think i CAN answer this truthfully, I had the occasion to know a lady, and I had her more than once when she said her sister, who is a stutterer needs a hand and wants to know If she is acceptable to me? I said well does she want me to do to her like i do to you? She said yes as she never had any male friends as her stuttering maks her shy. Well I as easy does it, had her that evening and we all 3 of us enjoyed the night together. Yes use lots of lubrication, condoms and yes I even got her to suck and lick and know when she had a shot at it an Orgasm for the first time. After this i helped with her sisters help show her how to self masturbater and let herself go. She and I get along and anytime the sisters need an older man, they call me. About her stuttering, i got her to just calm down and say things slowly and you know what she even asked me to let her suprise me by getting me to do her first and let me finger and ride me on top as i have a bad back.
Yes, it can be done, but you need to know what each wants out of the pleasure and how far the limits are and if they like it one way or both ways and if at last they are into suprise and dress up dates in latex, nylons or whatever is your fancy, Cowboys and a lot of nurses uniforms is what they like here,
My advice for stamina: Masturbate. A lot.
Use it as a training routine. With practice, you can keep it up and going even after climax. If you're doing the deed this weekend, this probably won't help you much, but keep it in mind for the future.
When I do it, I just don't let up on myself when I climax. It's hard at first, but once you get used to it it becomes easier, and women love it. Good luck with your threesome, I would love to be in your shoes
[QUOTE=ua322;150741]You're screwed. Just savor the 2 minutes and 15 seconds as much as you can. Try to get it on video.
During the downtime, perform a Vaudeville act in nothing but a pair of cowboy boots and cummerbund. That'll entertain 'em![/QUOTE]
Ok mostly just slaping at this guy, but during a three some never just "go your limit and back out" expically with women. Girls usally have a threesome for a new sexual experance.. and the three and out is what they could do at home. If you do climax quickly, to to keep your penis from touching things, letting it "cool down". also try to please the girls without exciting yourself to much, or you may end up climaxing while still "cooling down" my personal orgasm-rest-orgasm time is 5 mintues.. no joke.. and I've only had sex twice, both threesomes with two girls.. lucky me:) :cool: and if you don't know how to please them.. well that's jsut to bad. Experiment, communication, and imagination are the key
hm well good luck but why not go one at a time and then think of the threesome ?
Now I've not had a threesome yet, but my answer to this would be oral, and fingering, or toys. Don't go directly for innercourse, get them aroused before yourself. Since you are focusing on pleasing them more than yourself, perform oral on them, finger them, do short burts of innercourse, just don't take to one and not the other, or it won't be enjoyable for everyone :P
> [JustKurious] if there are any more suggestions, please keep them coming. I'll keep you posted too. The "event" will be happening this weekend. *crosses fingers*
It has been about five weeks, did anything happen and if so, what. Inquisitive minds want to know, especially since you said you would keep us informed.
> I've never really been able to last too long before. I would say, I could only last 5 minutes normally.
Five minutes is entirely long enough. If intercourse lasts longer than about ten minutes, most women will become tired, bored, and, sore! Premature Ejaculation is having an unplanned climax within the first minute or so, either upon initial entry, the first return stroke, or during the first few. If a guy climaxes after this then the resulting climax is simply an untimely event.
> [slythero] My advice for stamina: Masturbate. A lot. Use it as a training routine.
Masturbating once before making out (or even having a climax during) or before intercourse will help slow you down; however, doing it several times is not a good solution for at least two good reasons I can think of. If you want to have better control over your responses, please do an advanced search using my name and the key words: Premature Ejaculation, PE, or benchmark. You will find one or more posts in which I describe an exercise you and your girlfriend can do over several days that will teach you how to maintain control.
As for generally masturbating a lot--well, who can argue against that when it comes to stress relief and general enjoyment?
> [eddy] if you cant last long have them go at each other or take care of them first
Expert advice.
> [pawnys] if you don't know how to please them.. well that's jsut to bad. Experiment, communication, and imagination are the key
I agree, although, do not forget to include "education", after all that is the main purpose for this Board.
> [Newtolove] hm well good luck but why not go one at a time and then think of the threesome ?
What a novel concept! What do you think about this, JustKurious? Concentrating on just one will give each woman more of what she desires and you can still have your fantasy.
i personnaly would avoid a threesome, but hey
let us know how it goes :)