I have a few questions, I'll try to make it easy as possible:
1.I guess my boyfriend told me that it was easier to do fingering if the person receiving it was shaved. I do that, but it seems to irritate me. Am I doing something wrong? If so, what can I do so I'm not irritated?
2. What are some common things to expect from "him" on a girls first time. Ex: reactions and so on.
3. My boyfriend masturbates frequently, will this mean that when we have sex it maynot be as good?
Thanks for taking the time to help me out.
1. shave more often and use a shaving lotion like 'coochie'
2. that depends on him.
3. if anything he may last longer. but sex and maturbation are two very different things.
If shaving irritates you, are there other products that will remove hair without razors? I'm thinking along the lines of Nair. If there are any girls out there with experience on the subject, you'd know what to suggest better than I.
1.I guess my boyfriend told me that it was easier to do fingering if the person receiving it was shaved. I do that, but it seems to irritate me. Am I doing something wrong? If so, what can I do so I'm not irritated?
As far as I know, fingering isnt made "easier" by shaving, but it can make your genitals seem more attractive than the all natural look. It also makes the oral sex but easier on the guy . are you shaving with or against the natural way the hair grows because you shave against, and you are far more likely to get ingrown hair and razorburn.
2. What are some common things to expect from "him" on a girls first time. Ex: reactions and so on.
Depends on the guy?
3. My boyfriend masturbates frequently, will this mean that when we have sex it maynot be as good?
Um. Sex is nothing like masturbation. No no no. Oh! And don't expect that you will orgasm.... at least during sex itself.
Hey,
My boyfriend loves me to be all clean down there too... I tried shaving for quite some time.. and I kept getting these annoying little red bumps on the 'top part'... so, I tried some hair removal cream.. and it works amazingly!!! I can shave mostly everything down there, but that top part still gets irratitated... try veet... thats the one that works the best for me...it you still get really irritated though, don't do it. It's your choice if you want to be clean or not. And as far as I know, it doesn't make fingering any easier or harder...
What to expect from him on the first time? like everyone else said, it depends on the 'him'... for me, my guy was totally sweet, knowing I was a bit scared still. He took things slow and let me decide how fast or slow I wanted things to happen.. If both of you are virgins.. then id say take things at wahtever speed your comfortable with.. and dont expect it to be the mind blowing, screaming for 1/2 an hour sex you see on tv. I don't think anyones first time is like that.. just enjoy it...
My guy masturbates too.. but it doesnt make anything less fun... if anything, I think it make shim last a bit longer...
hope I helped a bit....
shadowy
[FONT="Impact">I'm a little confused, should you go with or against the natural direction of the hair growth? And do you have any tips about shaving if we don't have access to and special products? I just started like three days ago and I like it, but I get razor burn and I'm DEFINATELY not an expert so any tips would be super appreciated! Thank you so much!![/FONT]
well.. if it helps.. when i shave, I go from back to front....
shadowy
definitely would recommend shaving cream to smooth things over... i myself have gone both with the grain most of the time, but to get really specific spots i have found myself going againts the grain... a product such as "veet" can also help, and then u go over with the razor for some "fine tuning" ... make sure you follow the directions on any hair removal product to avoid burns or skin reactions....
personnally i rarely do a full hair removal, i just like to do some hedge trimming every day or 2 in the shower and thats how im comfortable...
cheers, fluffy.