First off my girlfriend and I are on a "break" from quote her "not to see other people but I just have so much going on I dont feel I can give as much in a relationship right now as you can" Its a newly long distance relationship (6 hour drive) and she doesnt feel its fair to me that I should drive to see her when she cant do the same for me. I really want it to work out between us but I dont see how its just gunna start up again being so far away. The problem is I think about her so much and although I dont want to let go I realize she needs this right now. I dont want to think of her so much right now just so its easier to deal with for the moment.
However, I do have a problem. Whenever I masterbate I think of her even when I'm trying not to. I try watching porn and it still comes back to I dont think any of these women compare to her.
Any advice please? lol on anything I mentioned?
Welcome to my world. If that's what turns you on, that's what turns you on... so long as it doesn't give you a mental block about thinking of other things, so that you become fixated on her and only her.
[QUOTE=TheChad;218738]First off my girlfriend and I are on a "break" from quote her "not to see other people but I just have so much going on I dont feel I can give as much in a relationship right now as you can" Its a newly long distance relationship (6 hour drive) and she doesnt feel its fair to me that I should drive to see her when she cant do the same for me. I really want it to work out between us but I dont see how its just gunna start up again being so far away. The problem is I think about her so much and although I dont want to let go I realize she needs this right now. I dont want to think of her so much right now just so its easier to deal with for the moment.
However, I do have a problem. Whenever I masterbate I think of her even when I'm trying not to. I try watching porn and it still comes back to I dont think any of these women compare to her.
Any advice please? lol on anything I mentioned?[/QUOTE]
..i was in the exact same position but had a very unsupportive boyfriend..to be honest, if you guys are meant to work distance should be no issue..but you need to clarify how long this 'break' is going to last otherwise it will prolong your agony..
masturbation about her is normal..i mean your situation is ambiguous..i think you need to clarify what this break is before worrying about if you should be thinking about her during masturbation...if she's not keen to continue the relationship, fantasies are fine as long as they don't take over everything.