ok so i had sex for the first time with my girlfriend saturday (no longer a virgin WOOT!) and yeah, as expected (and because i had gone the whole week without masturbating for her) i only lasted like a minute so i had told her earlier that we would have to go at least twice because i wanted to get her off and the first time would last a minute which it did, so she said she would be ok with that and we did it the second time and i got off before her again but i finished her off with my hand then we decided to finally go to sleep cause it was about 2 in the morning and we had to be up and ready to go to a band competition by 10 in the morning so went to bed and then i woke up at around 5:30 (i'd woken up off and on a lil before that) to her groping me and then we started making out and after about a half hour she asked if she wanted to use her last condom and we decided yeah but this time i warmed her up with my hand for awhile until she said she was close but i got off before her again so i finished her off with my hand again then about another half hour passed and she wanted to it again but had run out of condoms but i managed to find a couple more my dad had hidden and forgot about so we did it again and i warmed her up before we had sex again and then we both got off at the same time and we still had a little less than an hour left till our alarm was set to wake us up to start getting ready and i managed to get hard again so used another condom and did it again this time without warming her up and i got her off and kept going past that and stopped after about 5 min after she got off cause i didn't wanna hurt her so she tried to finish me off with her hand and after awhile i started using my hand to and she just stopped and let me go with her and got close to getting her off until she decided not to cause it was starting to hurt and then we went to band and got ready for our competition and then she had told me that her vaginia hurt and after she went to the bathroom she had said that it was actually swollen and bleeding a little which kinda scared me but she said it wasn't all my fault and that it was hers to because she was the one egging me on and yeah wow...i wrote alot about that but i was just wondering if that was too much sex or not so i know if it would be smart to eventually try to break that record or not cause i dont wanna really badly hurt her or anything so yeah if you actually took the time to read all that post a comment
Sun, 10/08/2006 - 22:30
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is there such a thing as too much sex the first time
if she was swollen after that many times then just keep doing casual until she gets more used to it.. don't force it or u wont enjoy it.
No i feel it is not too much sex as lets say i have done it 7 times in the space of about 5 hours. (9pm-2am) then gone again the next day.
This being strange as well lets say, my gf is the one wanting it all the time and yes she does orgasm everytime before i get off. (she has had a double orgasm once before me getting off and apparently they are bery good, take it from her)
anyhow as for too much your bodies will tell u when u have had enough..
Example:
*her swollen/bleeding vagina meant that it was too much for her to handle at that tine
* your penis will start to get a little tender/sore if it has been used too constantly and will want a rest.
* the fact that if u do it too often and u dont really feel like doing it means u have had enough for a day or so, lol.
Also may i suggest that you change it up and not always use sex as a means of pleasure.. this being that if u keep doing sex at the rate u are (i started off just like u, maybe more intense who knows) and well it loses its satisfaction.. sure u last longer (45 mins+ on avg for me, tho first time was about 15-30) u may last longer but u wont enjoy it as much, so continue with the foreplay and changeup positions and different activities too keep the mystery and pleasure there. during intercoarse.
Sheesh. Use lube!